Dilemma...

[ShagginJet]

hehe, yea. I kind of have like a double standard. I'm just hoping that when I pick the girl i decide to marry. That i'll do a well enough job that she won't be the type to cheat. I'm usually a pretty good judge. That's how I've gotten myself in this position twice before.

I don't think it will effect me. It's better to go into a relationship knowing the end. If you know that there never will be anything to come out of it then you don't have to fear then end. Instead you can embrace the moment and live it up as much as possible. Plus I've been down that road before.

The guy would only be mad at me if he's a dumb ass. So banking on that, I'm ready to kick some ass. If he comes at me he's gonna get an unexpected treat, in the form of a size 11 boot. If he's smart then he'll realize that it was her choice, and he needs to sit and talk with her about the actual issue behind this. That is, if there is one. He might be ok with it, it mmight be the way their relationship is.

I'm not pushing for it, but if it happens then it happens...