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11-11-2002, 07:46 PM
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Birthdays....
Its getting that time of the year where i must reflect on the last year of my life. On november 13th i will officially be old (LOL) The big 17... Next year i will be popping arthritus pills and suffereing from ostioperosis. Drinking 3 glasses of milk a day. I will have to go out and get the granpa diapers.LOL
Seriusly though, my birthday is this wends. and this girl i have liked since my ex introduced me to her suggested we spend the day together! She dont know exactly how i feel for her and i havent told her for the fear of losing the "relationship" we do have. Do you guys think that that night is the time to confess to her how i feel? I have told her i felt this way about a girl but then told her it was another girl so i didnt "weird" her away from talking to me.... Do you think i was right to do that? We are going to see 8 Mile and we are making a day out of being together. Now for me she is pretty much perfect in every way and i want her to know. But still that little nagging feeling in the back of my mind is telling me i should not cross that line..... What do you guys think about this? |
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11-11-2002, 08:01 PM
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just go with it and see where it brings you, you only live once. its better to look back and not like the outcome than to think in your mind what would have happened if you gave it a shot
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11-11-2002, 08:32 PM
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yah totally spend the day with her and see where you both stand at the end of the night. Maybe she feels the same way about you and thats why she wants to spend the whole day with you.....
Oh and dude, if you're gonna be "old" at 17, I'm practically in the grave then!   :o
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11-11-2002, 08:38 PM
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yeah... shit im pushing 19 thats almost over the hill
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11-11-2002, 09:18 PM
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Ive always heard: the older you get the more respect......True? LOL   |
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11-11-2002, 09:19 PM
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i respect people with experience, age dosnt matter.
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11-11-2002, 09:31 PM
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yup....wisdom doesn't come with age.
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11-11-2002, 09:38 PM
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theres some people I've gained respect from...unfortunately the guys that I've been with haven't recieved the memo on how to respect and treat a girl the correct way. Soooo....there's still some that are slacking. You make it sound like the older you get the more Yoda-esque one becomes. Doesn't really happen that way. (thank god....I would NOT want to become that lil green dude  )
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11-11-2002, 09:41 PM
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11-11-2002, 09:49 PM
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Dude the girl likes you, tell her how you feel and you'll kiss her by the end of the day. No girl "makes a day out of it" and isn't trying to give the guy a hit.
As for turning old, had the biggest thing will be 19 which i'm coming up to soon. thats the last year your a teenager and the first year people start taking you for older then you are. well in my case people always take me for older. Have fun on your day out and just tell the girl how you feel. If it ruins the relationship you had before, be thankful you never stuck your dick in her and get on with life. |
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11-11-2002, 11:13 PM
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I agree with everyone just go for it, she maybe wanting you to make the move, if not dont stop trying thats what i did. I asked out my current wife (hopefully for a little while anyways) almost every single day until finally she said yes, we then dated for 3 years and got married. So never give up.
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11-12-2002, 03:37 AM
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i think you should stop acting like you like women
(j/k)I agree with what everyone said just spend the day with her and see where you stand at the end of the nite (but i already told you this And i doubt telling her how you feel for her will hurt anything you guys have right now, look at me and kim |
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11-12-2002, 09:11 AM
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Agreed! You can look at it this way: Do you really want to look back at this opportunity in the future and think, "I wish I would have told her how I feel", or think, "I'm really glad I told her how I feel". Sometimes you just have to take chances, even if it means getting hurt! (I should really take my own advice! ) I hope you have a great birthday! 
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11-12-2002, 06:01 PM
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First of thank you guys for all your advice... I will take all of it into consideration tommorow ( the "big day") Dingo......the only reason you like kims is because shes is absolutley gourgues and she has big hoo-ha's ( . )Y( . ) LOL j/k |
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11-12-2002, 06:24 PM
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yes shes is good looking eh?
*edit* how can you have more post than me? i was on this board like a month before you, you post wh0re you just wish you could be L33t like me    |
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11-12-2002, 07:22 PM
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just be carefull.............i ruined a great friendship over a kiss.
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11-12-2002, 09:16 PM
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I am not quite sure how i have more post then you...Lets break it down and try to find it: YOU stay on here till 7 am because your a BUM. I go to school for most of the day while your are STILL on here... I dont know.... but GOD yes she is hot..just thinking of he- *wipes up drool* *SLURP* where was i again? Oh yea you BUM! |
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11-12-2002, 10:37 PM
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I am being careful i have a relationship with my girfriend of 3 years and i love her to death. But my god kim is hot and she likes me! shes always inviting me over and what not....*edit* jesus christ now your pulling away from me on post! thats it, im gonna reply to every thread on this baord... |
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11-13-2002, 01:10 AM
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guys... remeber, if you post 1000 usless things or 100 useful things, the guy with 100 usefull things will be respected more... its that whole age vs. experience, but with post quality. just keep that in mind. 1000 pointless posts or 100 good ones, what do you want to have?
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11-13-2002, 02:41 AM
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j/k, i don't car im just giving him a hard time |
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11-13-2002, 03:06 PM
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Bullshit! You selfesh prick you wouldnt take that much time to type out 228 USEFULL post!!! LMAO j/k btw: he is not joking about kim....... god she is hot  |
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11-13-2002, 05:23 PM
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
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11-13-2002, 06:02 PM
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yea mike happy birthday!
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11-13-2002, 08:19 PM
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GOOD GOD!!! every time i close my eyes i see those DAMN BANANAS!!! DAMN YOU DINGO!!!! Thank you Ds for two reasons...
1. For saying "Happy B-day" 2. Not using 84 bananas.
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me from another forum (im the top geekz0r) the geekz0r (11:03:46 PM): basicly, look at it this way...the 6speed is the same is the 5speed in 2,3,4,5,and 6...only the speeds are different because of the fd the geekz0r (11:04:16 PM): so 2nd pulls like 1st in the 5speed, 3rd is like 2nd, etc. PortugeeTex (11:04:26 PM): so whats 1st like then? the geekz0r (11:04:49 PM): 1st is like hitting a cheeta in the ass with a tazer PortugeeTex (11:04:53 PM): lmfao |
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11-13-2002, 09:07 PM
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i used 108.. if you can't appraciate it ill take them away
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11-13-2002, 10:04 PM
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A banana user you are. A postwhore you are attempting to be.
Happy birthday. Banana. <-- it doesn't dance, but same idea. Ya know I just saw that friggin dancing banana on Ed tonight....disturbing. The bananas are coming out to get me. I eat like 2-3 a day, no wonder they're trying to kill me. Age makes you older. Experience doesn't necessarily make you wiser, it's how you deal with the experience. Learning from mistakes makes you wiser, experiencing the outcome and merely making the mistake again doesn't exactly make you wiser. Pay attention, be observant, and remember. Quote:
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11-14-2002, 03:53 PM
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hehe...exactly!!!!
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11-14-2002, 03:55 PM
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Hey no problem!!! SOOOOO how did your day go with "your" chick???? details details...you can't just leave us hangin!
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11-14-2002, 06:12 PM
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Not half as good as i wanted it to... First off she got here at about 12:15 and we went out to lunch (alley oops) Then i took her to where she worked so she could get her check. Then we went to see the movie. Ended up not telling her in the movie as i intended... Ever get the feeling that the "mood" just aint right? Well i sat through the movie with that feeling. Then we left (its like 4:30 now) Then we left and i took her back to my house so she could get her car and we hugged and she left. BUT! Later that night she was on and i told her then..... She said "Im flabbergasted! I dont know what to say..." Then we got to talking like it wasnt even said. (That was a real kick to the twig and berries ) I finally recovered from the devestaing blow to my man hood and asked her a serius question in as manly voice i could "Is there ever the chance that we could be more *squeek* then just *squeek* friends?" simple respnse to finish me off. "I dont know right now" ... Now i dont know what to make of this...kinda confued.. But the is the extent of the night.... |
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11-14-2002, 06:14 PM
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girls=evil
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11-14-2002, 07:16 PM
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sorry to hear that mate. By her not giving you a solid answer it says alot about her, in your position i would have lost all feelings for her because she can't be straight up with me. girls who mess about are simply trouble, maybe its a good thing you learned it now.
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11-14-2002, 10:54 PM
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dude that sucks....and I can completely understand where you're coming from bein confused about things. Sure she might not have given you a straight answer which means 1 of 2 things. Either she was just tryin to be nice and couldn't find the way to say "no" or she just really doesn't know right now where she wants to go with things. If it's the first situation then yes I'd have to agree (somewhat) to Chris's and Rob's "girls=evil" formula. BUT if it's the second then be glad she is being honest. She could've say no and completely break your heart or she could've said yes and have been leading you on if she really didn't know where she wants to go with things. Everything happens for a reason....just go with the flow. Everything will work out exactly how it's "supposed" to.
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