My ex defines a slut....have to vent

Originally posted by Accord17
Ya i know time heals all wounds but what a gapping would it is! It's just hard to hear her talk about who's cute or who she got massages from and "watched movies" with. but i'm slowly getting better with it.

Are you out of your mind? I would never be able to do that. Always, in the back of my mind I would be picturing him with another girl and that used to turn my stomach. Now, I could care less if he put his penis in a flaming hole. I'm over it. If you really think that you can deal with it this way, that's ok too. I know that totally cutting her out of your life will be a little painful but it will be a lot better for you in the long run. The only thing that it will do for you if you continue too see her is hold you back. At some point maybe you will want to be with someone but the fact that you're still hanging around your X can totally mess with your mind.