what defines a slut?

Originally posted by cutiepy701
IMO a slut has nothing to do with the number of people you sleep with. I think It is more like a frame of mind. I have slept with 14 people in my life. I am 20 and started having sex when I was 16. In my mind that isn't that much. Because you can talk to a person for a month or two, and like missy said, just feel comfortable to have sex with them. I too wish I would have waited. But I have had great experiences.

I have (or had) 3 girlfriends who were total sluts. We'd just be driving around and they'd see a fine guy and be like "man I'd fu** him in a second". Or we would go to the bar, and my one friend would actually pick out a cute guy and make it her mission to sleep with him that night. That is so gross, and a slut to me.
It really has alot to do with your mind frame.

And mt biker, just because you have slept with alot of guys doens't mean you are loose

Just speaking from personal experience here

Guys can be just as big of sluts as girls if not more. But when guys sleep with all sorts of girls they get mad props, and we get called sluts. Why can't it just be a mutual thing???

double standards my dear! gotta love em