what defines a slut?

"Trying to find a relationship" or "Looking for the right" is like when your waiting for a pot of water to boil and you're just sitting there staring at it. I think I've said that before. And then a really wise person said to put some salt in it because that makes it boil faster I don't know. I just don't believe in going out and looking for a relationship. But if you want to, make sure you add some spices One major downfall to having an intimate sexual relationship with someone is when you break up. You're so used to having it in your life. Then you're single again and sleeping with a heated, vibrating pillow