what defines a slut?

When it comes to love or sex, I don't think that you can ever set an appropriate time frame or even a number. It just all about when you feel that it's right and that you're ready. If you meet someone and fall in love, I don't necessarily think that you have to wait until you marry them to have sex. As long as you're doing it for the right reasons, I don't see anything wrong with it. If it's your belief or what have you to wait and that is something that you have a lot of faith in, that's ok. In terms of my religon, that's what the belief is but there just came a point in time where I was just ready to be at that place with my boyfriend. My first boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. I waited for the first 2. I knew that I was ready before those 2 years went by but I still felt like I had to wait because of what I was told and the way that I was raised. Like I said, in certain respects I do wish that I had waited because it would be an amzing thing to share with the person that I marry. But in others, I'm happy with the decision that I made because of a lot of beautiful expieriences that I've had in my 2 serious relationships. That might sound corny but I don't care.