Feels so weird (long post)

This sounds like you changed roles for her. You two started off as could be's but you put aside your romantic feelings because of her father and 2 years later she decides she wants this other guy as her bf.

Dude I must say it sounds like you didn't try hard enough in the first place. If you really cared for her more then a friend you would have over come the problems. I have tons of friends who are seeing girls who their fathers dont want them to date, alot of them are asian and a few of them are from ex-russian countries.

Theres something I've been living by for most of my life, if your friends with a girl for more then 6 months and never go further then that, then you never will nor should you. Now i'm not saying you have to have sex with her and that as your gf she might not be your best friend but im sure you know what i mean.

side note this internet thing sounds like a mistcommunication :(