how do u girls pay for your mods?

i do lots of promotion for a shop in AZ called superior racing development.. which helps me get a discount on parts.. but not really.
i pay for them myself..
last time i had someone buy something for my car.. my X put on a ricey ass body kit, ugly fog lights, and a dash kit i cant get off..
never again will i let my car be in anyone elses hands...

except my mechanic/best friend who helps me install and fix stuff on my car..