A little beef.

[KwikR6]

Originally Posted by nonovurbizniz

You are a testy little bitch aren't you?

Did I direct the rap comment at you???

Here's what I think your REAL problem is... You're a pussy... some dude grabbed the girl you were with and you didn't have the balls/brains to do anything about it... so now you're crying on the internet.

Since you obviously can't handle the fact that I may have addressed other comments than your own I'll go ahead and deal with JUST your first post.

A. "Society" doesn't disrespect women... we actually live in a time that "society" has basically FORCED even those who don't want to, to treat women with respect.

B. To say women are "used for one thing" is so goddam narrow minded and rediculous I don't even know if I should bother commenting... I interact with probobly 20 different women on a daily bassis... ONE of those is used for the "one thing" you mentioned... and I would call it "using".

C. Yes you DO infact have to and ALWAYS have had to worry about drunken dudes grabbing or hitting on your women... Frankly 20 years ago dudes WOULD NOT have been arrested for broad day light grabbing a girls ass un-solicited (unless she was white and he was black). FROM THE CAVE MAN DAYS men are programed to compete for womens attention.

D. If you encounter people who are molesting and sexually assaulting people every other day WHY DON'T YOU DO SOMETHING???
- Encourage the women to press charges
- Make a scene in the club you are at to point out the scumbag
- Kick the dudes ass
- Tell the management of the club
- You could even stoop to passive aggressiveness or revenge if you know the responsible party or can manage to pull something within the evening.

You have TONS of options... YOU are CHOOSING not to excercise them.

When I lived in boston dating my wife she got hit on all the time and people made comments all the time which frankly as long as they're not obscene I don't really care and neither does she... but if/when someone grabbed her I made it PERFECTLY clear that shit doesn't fly and 99pct of the time the dude responsible realizes he did something inappropriate and apologize on the spot.

P.S. despite what your parents might have thought sexually repressing a child and stigmatizing nudity tends to negatively effect normal sexual development.

The number of rapists in repressive societies are generally higher than those of sexually open societies.

I'm not turning this into anything I responded to posts... that's all.

I don't recall saying that dudes should be allowed to molest chicks when they're drunk... Actually if I were with a girl and some drunk dude grabbed her crouch I would make a scene and if he didn't apologize I would CERTAINLY encourage her to call the police and have him arrested... because someone who thinks that's ok to do in public would probobly be willing to do a LOT more in private.

You ARE responsible for the world around you... people are NOT required to make you happy... people do terrible shit all the time... and when people don't DO something about it they get away with it and do it again.

That's what's wrong with political correctness... it's the assumption that you and everyone around you should worry about what's going to offend the next guy... Bullshit... if something offends you say something or shutup. If someone does something wrong to you or someone your with DO something or SHUTUP.

First off. Dont ever call me a pussy. You don't know me. You don't know anything about me. To say I don't have the balls/brains to do anything about it is redicilious. In fact. I brough this topic up on behalf of someone else. I was speaking to someone about it and this person and I were talking about it and it was mentioned that maybe it would be good to be posted. I've been in plenty of fights and have stuck up for plenty of women. I however can't fight right now being the position I'm in. And being that I'm 600Km away from any girl I personally know becuase of school. I know I have ton's of options. And punching someones face in and breaking my hand over a guys head was one of them at the time. So I would say damn right's I exercised my options.
I'm not going to start internet fighting and threatening you and shit. But dude. Don't ever call me a bitch or pussy or anything along those lines. You have not one ounce of knowledge about me or anything I've ever done.
I realize what your saying. And yes you are right in a lot of those aspects. I would never let a girl get treated that way. As far as my parents sheltering me. No. They never did that. You have to realize that I wasn't in my teen years in the 80's. I was a child that played outside and played at the beach played sports all year around. So don't say that I was sheltered and insinuate that I'm going to grow up to be a rapist. That's just fucking twisted.

[nonovurbizniz]

Originally Posted by KwikR6

First off. Dont ever call me a pussy. You don't know me. You don't know anything about me. To say I don't have the balls/brains to do anything about it is redicilious. In fact. I brough this topic up on behalf of someone else. I was speaking to someone about it and this person and I were talking about it and it was mentioned that maybe it would be good to be posted. I've been in plenty of fights and have stuck up for plenty of women. I however can't fight right now being the position I'm in. And being that I'm 600Km away from any girl I personally know becuase of school. I know I have ton's of options. And punching someones face in and breaking my hand over a guys head was one of them at the time. So I would say damn right's I exercised my options.
I'm not going to start internet fighting and threatening you and shit. But dude. Don't ever call me a bitch or pussy or anything along those lines. You have not one ounce of knowledge about me or anything I've ever done.
I realize what your saying. And yes you are right in a lot of those aspects. I would never let a girl get treated that way. As far as my parents sheltering me. No. They never did that. You have to realize that I wasn't in my teen years in the 80's. I was a child that played outside and played at the beach played sports all year around. So don't say that I was sheltered and insinuate that I'm going to grow up to be a rapist. That's just fucking twisted.

See sig. lol.

I wasn't trying to insinuate you were a rapist. The other stuff was just me being loud.

Half of the mean spirited response here was a retaliation for your mean spritied response in my corner light thread.

I hear what your saying in your post and it bothers me too but frankly you just can't let it...

All you can do is everything in your power to make sure that obviosly you aren't like that and that noone around you is either or if they are they know it's not acceptable.

I truly do believe that people should press charges with shit like that because those dudes ARE NOT going to stop there. They don't understand inter-personal relationships so they just assert their desires on un-expecting/willing girls.

Anyway you're not a pussy I was just being me.