So I just went on my first date (ever)

Originally posted by Shaved &/or Laid
teh sad thing is girls get 'freaked out' 'scared' 'overwhelemed' and generally psycho when a guy will actually, you know, go out of his way for her on a regular basis and/or make her important.

the real problem is most girls/women expect the men in their lives to keep on doing this. This is when the trouble begins because you rarely hear a woman say "i had to give up my sewing for my husband" but more often then not you hear 'I had to give up my 68 vette for my wife because it wasnt pratical'

Cutting through all the bullshit I've noticed that men tend to do more of the expensive things and also bend over backwards more for women then visa versa. Now I say this because on new talk 1010am they had a call in segment on this and you should have heard what these husbands gave up. Then when a woman called in (it was in equal numbers 1 guy and then 1 girl) it was like 'um now that I think about it I didnt give anything up'. So ya guys give up alot for relationships, and men dont forget to draw aline in the sand when she crosses it something needs to be done.