question for da ladies

everything actually seemed to be going good for a while. he stopped talking to her, we started talking a lot, and hanging out together. we ended up spending new years together, see wanted to see the fast and the furious , i was gonna ask her out the next day, but then i got a message from the other kid saying if i did anything with her or went out with her i would regret it. so i didnt ask her out then, now i dont think she wants to go out because he just said he'd make her life hell if she went out with me, im gonna open up to her this week whenever we hang out and see what happens