What Do You Think?

Maybe the problem lays more with you. Everytime you break up you decide to get back in the relationship even though you know there are reasons for the previous break up. Seems funny you'd be complaining about it now, you have a track record that tells you things will end with this guy and according to that record you'll take him back.

You arent always in control of the cards you're dealt, but you choose how to play those cards. My advice would be to realize no one ever sets out at the beginning of a relationship to hurt someone and people get hurt because its complicated to be in a relationship with two emotional creatures. Add in the stresses of life, war and so on and there you have it. A perfectly good heart, broken. Thankfully in your case a broken heart only needs time to heal.