Orgasms

Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Ha ha ha...ok...lemme break it down to you then....I am shy. There was never a time where I could stand in front of my boyfriend naked without feeling like there are 10,000 people staring at me. As time went by I would get more comfortable and I had gotten real comfortable with him. I honestly think that he just wasn't experienced enough because I thought I ws comfortable with him...it's just that he never been able to get me off...I think it just has to deal with the comfort level and how good and experienced a guy is to get this accomplished.

Well the guy definitely has a part in this, but you can't just put the onus on him either. He definltey has to try to understand and respond to your position/feelings on the situation, but you must do the same to his. As I said, it's simple yet compelx.......

I've had g/f's before that felt they couldn't stand naked in front of me. Personally, that bothered me. No matter what I tried to communicate to them, it just didn't help. I think they felt intimidated by me, which is unfortunate. I guess I can be pretty intimidating at times, but I'm a very forgiving, understanding, and accomodating person when I care for/about you. Quite frankly I have/had no idea how to make them be comfortable with me. I considered those girls to be near physical godesses.....yet they were uncomfortable with both themselves and me. Maybe my fault, maybe theirs, maybe both....I just don't know.

But as far as experience goes.....I really don't think that matters when love factors into things. Sure it sounds romantic, but really, if you really love someone you are totally comfortable with said person and will do anything to please that person. When love isn't a factor is when things get more complex.....

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