Another question for the HST ladies

[1hotchic]

I dated a guy who was a drummer for two bands and I didn't know this until after a few dates. He thought that that would be the only reason I would continue seeing him because of groupies. Girls want to be with the guy who has the spotlight in the band. My friends still tell me to this very day that I was stupid for not dating him anymore just because he was a drummer for his bands. Women say they want one thing and pursue another. "oh you're so cute, who's the guy in the white shirt?" is usually how it happens. My friends have actually done this intentionally to meet his cuter more popular friend. If you treat girls a little bit like shit, you'll have them eating out of your hand. You have to act like you don't care.