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CD5Passion · 12-08-2003, 05:12 AM

so whats with my girlfriend of nearly a year going and saying "oh I never had time to be single, I went from serious relationship to another so I need some time to my self, but I still love you and I want to be with you but now's not the time"
I come to find out she started talking to her ex again shortly after we broke up.
then a week comes and she tells me she misses me and wants to be with me and she just wants me to know that but now not the time, that she wants to be single AND AGAIN two days later she has a effing boyfriend

honestly I'm pissed and confused, I'm hittin the killswitch

thanks for listening

BlackWolf · 12-08-2003, 07:40 AM

Sounds like she wants you to be a "backup" in case it doesn't work out with the ex. I'd re-evaluate this "relationship" with the girlfriend. Sorry to be so blunt but it's the week of and I'm feeling reeeaallyy biatchy lately.

*ChrisCantSkate* · 12-08-2003, 07:56 AM

i had the same thing happen... and just walked away from her. but its your call... dosnt sound like she's too serious about anything though

*pdiggitydogg* · 12-08-2003, 11:17 AM

Id say screw it...she's just messing with you

but I know its difficult, if not impossible sometimes, to drop a relationship....good luck

but i still say leave her and move on to someone who wants just you

12-08-2003, 12:06 PM

sorry to hear that,

i know its tough, but you have to let this one go.

12-08-2003, 01:18 PM

LET IT GO! It sounds like she's keeping you around for the what if factor. If she wants to be with you like she says, then she will be with you. If not, then it's your time for you to move on.

CD5Passion · 12-08-2003, 10:43 PM

Oh I had already decided that I'm ducking out and that I'm not going to be around only when it's good for her it is bullsh1t and I will not be taken advantage of like that.

guess thats the con of being such a nice guy, thinking of becoming a complete a$shole to girls, heh but not really I enjoy girls too much to be mean (not to be taken sexually mind you)

GT40FIED · 12-09-2003, 03:52 AM

Hmmm...by now Shards you should know my response...kick her in the throat. I'm not kidding. I'll even wait here while you do it. Women like that make me physically ill. She starts taking interest in an old flame and suddenly you, her bf of a year, get put on the back burner. Her relationship withthis other jackass obviously didn't work out in the first place but now she thinks it will? She's a f@cking fool and you're right to drop her on her ass. I swear...I'm about 2" from swearing off women altogether.

ebpda9 · 12-09-2003, 09:59 AM

women are too much of a pain in the ass. i know how you feel because i kinda go thru the same thing. i know my ex sees me as her best friend, and she is following something but i can't yet figure out what. meanwhile i am just me, an asshole towards her

. hopefullt she will get the idea i don't need her crap

ohiochica · 12-09-2003, 12:55 PM

shards.......best wishes hon, like everyone else said , she is using you as teh back up.

12-08-2003, 05:12 AM	#1
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 39 Posts: 5,446	Another Venting post so whats with my girlfriend of nearly a year going and saying "oh I never had time to be single, I went from serious relationship to another so I need some time to my self, but I still love you and I want to be with you but now's not the time" I come to find out she started talking to her ex again shortly after we broke up. then a week comes and she tells me she misses me and wants to be with me and she just wants me to know that but now not the time, that she wants to be single AND AGAIN two days later she has a effing boyfriend honestly I'm pissed and confused, I'm hittin the killswitch thanks for listening __________________

12-08-2003, 07:40 AM	#2
BlackWolf La Loba Loca Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Nor Cal Posts: 1,016	Sounds like she wants you to be a "backup" in case it doesn't work out with the ex. I'd re-evaluate this "relationship" with the girlfriend. Sorry to be so blunt but it's the week of and I'm feeling reeeaallyy biatchy lately. __________________ Does the noise in my head bother you??

12-08-2003, 07:56 AM	#3
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 41 Posts: 9,662	i had the same thing happen... and just walked away from her. but its your call... dosnt sound like she's too serious about anything though __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

12-08-2003, 10:43 PM	#7
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 39 Posts: 5,446	Oh I had already decided that I'm ducking out and that I'm not going to be around only when it's good for her it is bullsh1t and I will not be taken advantage of like that. guess thats the con of being such a nice guy, thinking of becoming a complete a$shole to girls, heh but not really I enjoy girls too much to be mean (not to be taken sexually mind you) __________________

12-09-2003, 03:52 AM	#8
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 43 Posts: 7,451	Hmmm...by now Shards you should know my response...kick her in the throat. I'm not kidding. I'll even wait here while you do it. Women like that make me physically ill. She starts taking interest in an old flame and suddenly you, her bf of a year, get put on the back burner. Her relationship withthis other jackass obviously didn't work out in the first place but now she thinks it will? She's a f@cking fool and you're right to drop her on her ass. I swear...I'm about 2" from swearing off women altogether. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

12-08-2003, 11:17 AM	#4
pdiggitydogg Yahoo Watashi wa kattaze! Join Date: May 2002 Location: Meanwhile, up in The D... Age: 41 Posts: 10,579	Id say screw it...she's just messing with you but I know its difficult, if not impossible sometimes, to drop a relationship....good luck but i still say leave her and move on to someone who wants just you

12-08-2003, 12:06 PM	#5
cashizslick Posts: n/a	sorry to hear that, i know its tough, but you have to let this one go.

12-08-2003, 01:18 PM	#6
Anotherslo1 Posts: n/a	LET IT GO! It sounds like she's keeping you around for the what if factor. If she wants to be with you like she says, then she will be with you. If not, then it's your time for you to move on.

12-09-2003, 09:59 AM	#9
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 44 Posts: 17,266	women are too much of a pain in the ass. i know how you feel because i kinda go thru the same thing. i know my ex sees me as her best friend, and she is following something but i can't yet figure out what. meanwhile i am just me, an asshole towards her . hopefullt she will get the idea i don't need her crap __________________

12-09-2003, 12:55 PM	#10
ohiochica Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: youngstown ohio Age: 46 Posts: 848	shards.......best wishes hon, like everyone else said , she is using you as teh back up. __________________ to all our military: my thoughts and prayers are with you, come home safe and come home soon. Ohio HST members please read this

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