ok ladies-help me out

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Originally posted by thermalfi'd16

My advise is to understand your situation and all the risk involved. Once you understand it, it is up to you to accept it and all its consequences. ...
I'm not gonna sit here and tell you not to fall in-love or not to get too involved. We are human. Sometimes those things just happen. The only thing that we can do is understand and accept.
Remember, sometimes you have to grow apart to keep growing together.........
-Arnel

I'd have to agree with him Quin. If both of you are willing to make it work, then it will...but the effort has to be made by both parties. You also have to think about your goals and what you want in the future...He obviously knows what the next (at least) couple of years holds for his life, but are you willing to see yourself part of that. If not, then I agree with the others saying enjoy the time the 2 of you have together now, knowing what will eventually come and it'll be that much easier when that time does come. And remember, you may change your mind down the road away....you never know what's going to happen.