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[nonovurbizniz]

cuz they feel safe in saying it then...

either you're the kinda guy who'll jump on them which may or may not be what they're looking to see happen.

or you're the kinda guy who'll not do anything.

it can be an expresion of their feelings (about your looks/personallity) to give you confidence to go out and persue you're OTHER love interests... or it can be a come on...

you should lean in like yer gunna kiss'em then back off... after you KNOW what they'd do... then no questions.

I used to work in a VERY free-speaking environment at a resturant... and the ONLY girls who seriously flirted with me were COMPLETELY taken... I know for a fact that some of them would have done me but I also know for a fact that some of them just felt safe flirting because they knew that no matter how serious both of us were we wouldn't do anything.

my .02