ok-am I being unreasonable?

Maikoshi, that's funny because I am the same way in terms of cleaning up for people. For a good portion of my adolescent life my mom was in bed most of time time because she did not feel well. I ended up doing a good majority of the cleaning and etc in my house. It was just something that I got very used to. She is fine now but I still do a lot of things at my own will. And my brother is a lazy crap that just makes messes. Say I go to a friends house for drinks or something with other people... When it's time to leave not only do I pick up after myself but after everyone else as well.