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Well I'd say shes trying to drop you a hint that she would like some space. If I was in your shoes I would give her that space, otherwise shes going to 'take' that space by asking for 'time apart' or a break up. In which case a 2nd try is rarely a good idea...
My guess is your 17-22 years old and this girl you're dealing with is probably just getting a little scared right now because her 'best friend' is now her 'boyfriend'. She might be pushing you away so she can think. Or she could just be scared about the future and having you around 24/7 is too much. There is also a point in a relationship (around 3-4 months) where you stop spending all your time together. For the first little while you want to get to know eachother and spend 'quality' time with him/her but then once that 'discovering' has been done you need to spend time with family and friends. Could she be asking for that?
Now this is all just a guess because your details are very sketchy at best. Just remember just because shes 'odd' this week doesn't mean your relationship is over, relationships have ups and downs. AND dont forget that girls are emotional rollercoasters, one week up, next week down. Just keep loving her and being there for her - in ways you might not first think qualify as 'being there' (like giving her space but being there for her when she needs a shoulder to cuddle up too). Get the idea?
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05-03-2003, 06:35 PM
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