why do girls say 1 thing but do another

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Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
girls are just sh!theads. You guys will eventually learn to deal with this....maybe It's easy for us to say "what we want" in a guy and then go for the complete opposite type cuz see we don't want to loose the friendship we have with the nice guy we go to to complain about our shithead bad boys.(assuming we have the nice guy as a friend to begin with) Now granted what we say to our nice guy friend may sound EXACTLY like him, but we never see those guys as dating material. By the time we do see them as dating/relationship material, some dirrty girl has her hands on him and we're trying to persuade him that she's a skank but by this time it's too late. Just give us time...we all come out of the stage at some point. Until then just keep helpin your girl friends through their phases.

I dunno about that...I've been the subject of many of those friendships. It's total crap. I'll become interested in one of my friends and then all I ever hear about are their leather-wearing alcoholic boyfriends and how they treat these girls like shit. But hey...why would you leave someone just because he treats you like shit? I've also learned that when a girl says she "doesn't want to ruin our friendship", it usually means "you're really nice and probably what I need in my life but you're not attractive enough and you probably won't beat me daily so I can't be with you". Face it...women love attention and even negative attention is still attention. I don't think it's such a good thing to keep putting up with that shit from a female friend. If you truely want to be with someone tell them to put up or shut up. If you're a nice guy and she says she wants that then it shouldn't be hard for her to ditch some asshole who just wants to get laid. I know that sounds harsh, but you can't control the way you feel about people and the hurt of watching someone you truely care about or love getting shit on while you'd worship them will eventually eat you from the inside out. It's hard as hell but if somebody won't see what you've got to offer then what's the point in hanging around and just causing yourself hurt...unless, of course, you feel like padding your psychologist's wallet later in life.