Drama

FWIW..

First off, its not "crap" but your baby's life your talking about. I have 3 kids that my wife and me love to death, and for me to see someone say its "crap" offends me. Having a baby for some is the most beautiful and meaningful thing that can happen to them, I know it was for us.

Secondly, you need to ask yourself are you ready to have kids. For some reason I dont get the impression that you are. Hopefully this isnt the case.

About the father. I'm gonna be blunt here, he seems like an irresponsible womanizer. In other words a player and not father material in any respect. Unless he's willing to make some serious life style changes and take some ownership in this whole situation, I dont think he's worth it... then again who am I to say that.

Sorry if I have offended anyone or come across as being harsh person. It just hurts a little knowing that a small child may be caught up in all of this.. again sorry.