That special someone???

[BlackWolf]

Hear, hear! Men are not mature at this age. Don't worry about him as much as you should for yourself. This is a time to live and learn from life. Marriage and kids are a lifetime commitment. If you feel you can commit, then by all means, let this guy know where you stand but do it gently and openly. Relationships are based on trust and if you're hiding your true feelings, that's not considered trusting. You can't trust someone that way. The only other thing I can say is talk to him, let him know how you feel. If it was meant to be then he'll feel the same. If not and you really care for him, give him time. His priorities and values will change as he gets older and marriage and kids might be more of a consideration for him. But, please, don't push him into anything right now. He'll only come to resent it and you for it. Time changes everything. Keep your head up and take care.