married, love and unhappy?

[Racing Rice]

Originally posted by AccordinStyle
RR & D ...once you loose trust in someone, that's when jealousy and bickering start...now you loose respect...so now you're always second guessing the person and wondering what they're doing, where they are, etc....now, how the hell can you love someone if you don't trust or respect them? It's a pyramid effect...been there, done that....and got f cked over....

Your right, you need all of those things to keep a relationship working. But, it can be worked out if there is a problem. Whether it be through counceling or whatever. If you care about someone enough, then its possible to get through stuff. You just have to take the effort and do it. Whether you believe that or not, its true.

Thats part of the problem with society today. Most people look for the easy way out instead of putting time to and effort into working out problems.

Heres another word that has to be part of a working relationship.. Compromise, without it you wont beable to find a middle ground where both parties can be happy.

The key to it, is to realize you there is a problem. Then do something about it. If you let it go to far, then your right. It wont workout and you should start working on the divorce papers.