Picking up good guys/girls 102: How to meet and where to start.

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Originally posted by TerKel00
Ok..well if Im feeling chemistry between myself and a guy...I give him "the look" then he should know to come over or not. Because I usually dont. At that point. Ive looked at him, gave him the hint that I want him to come over and say hi. Whether he does or not ...whatever. As far as finding a good guy..that hard to find. Ive only met good guys like through friends. I tried dating a guy from a dance club and oh damn..not a good idea. I cant explain it but I was basically just attracted to him cause he could dance! hahaa...what I have had at clubs is dumbass drunks come over to me ..wrap there arms around me and think they can get some. The worst thing a guy can do..is reach for a girls drink. hahaha..That ticks me off!! Oh! And never send your friend over to stinking ask a chick out. Thats so retarded. "uh yeah..my friend over there thinks your hot but hes a lil shy" ..."Uhh sorry I have a bf"..."Oh...well do you think you could come over and say Hi anyways?"...**glares at dumbass** "Umm..NO IM GOOD THANKS"!! hmph...

Kelly~

I see only one problem with the "look" idea. We are not very bright when it comes to hints. We notice everything but we don't act cuz we don't know what the "look" means. Guys have a bad habit of overanalyzing everything. The guys who are succesful are the ones who take things for what they're worth, she looked at me and we made eye contact, oh she looked and made contact again, i should go and see why. Then just walk up and say hi.

As for girls getting a good guy, it's different. Every girl seems to have their own version of what they want while for guys it's big____ and _____ and she likes to _____. But in essence it's just as easy, just say hi. Very rarely does a guy blow off a girl due to the fact he is too shaken and suprised that he was approached.

So in closing if you see someone that you think is cute and you may want to pursue something, sit or stand next to them, make eye contact and say hello. It won't hurt anything, worst case you move on to the next one.