Why?

Originally posted by juvenile
People change also because of others.
The guy/girl might be acting nice around you, but once you are not up to their standards (looks, personailty, morals etc), they act differently with you. Try to avoid you...etc.
People also change because in the beginning of the relationship, they try to put up a front like spoogenet said, and that is because int he beginnign is when the person tries to impress you. The longer you go on with the relationship, that person thinks that they can be their real self now, and that you'll forgive them no matter what since both of you are in "love" (which is a whole other story)
well you get what I mean (I hope)

Yeah, I pretty much get what everyone is saying but in terms of the whole standard thing. Our standards are something that we
pretty much refer to upon first meeting that person so how all of a sudden could I not be meeting his? Nothing has changed in terms of my looks, personality or etc. I didn't just turn into a ***** overnight or anything.