How the hell?

Originally posted by Quevv
I want to try "new things" with my girlfriend. We've been dating for 2yrs and love eachother very much. I guess I need help with initiating things. because I doubt she will.

you've been dating the girl for 2years and you dont know how to get her all worked up? I think that says alot more about you then her. I know my ex liked it alot better when i started things off, she also liked to be dominated.

I would talk to her about it be mature if you really care about the girl you should be able to talk about this without having to be horny. If its something that just happens well thats great too but this sound like it could be a serious relationship, why not give her the chance to put her 2cents in?