hooking up

Originally posted by GirlRacer
I am... though, between work and j's house-i'm rarely home. He's even put up a pug fence to keep my piglet in.

Very cute, how long you two been seeing eachother?

uhhhhh... rollin up on 3 months now, still kinda new, but things are great and headed for better

Originally posted by GirlRacer
uhhhhh... rollin up on 3 months now, still kinda new, but things are great and headed for better

thats rather new, actually really new. Could you marry this one?

ah... too early to say

Originally posted by GirlRacer
ah... too early to say, but if I were forced to have an answer now, it would be yes. However, there are some things that I need to work on, of course - and some things about him that I must learn to handle like an adult. (like his 8 yr. old son par exampla)

How does the kid like you? I never figured you for much of a kid fan. Him having a kid can have a handful of complications.

This I realize. He's a very very well-behaved and sweet boy. He's adorable as can be, not sure if he likes me b/c he's so quiet... jer only has him every other weekend though as the child lives in OKC on a military base with his mother and her husband. I haven't met the mother, don't plan to, don't care to. At first I didn't want to meet the child, but noticed it was REALLY bothering jer. that I wouldn't come see him or catch a baseball game or a movie, or other things when he had Taylor, so I'm slowly trying to let that go and incorporate in with all that.

My problem is-I AM a stepchild- twice over and I know that it SUX when you're trying to hang out with your dad and some girl is always around. I don't want some little kid hating me b/c I'm taking attention from his dad away from him.

Originally posted by GirlRacer
This I realize. He's a very very well-behaved and sweet boy. He's adorable as can be, not sure if he likes me b/c he's so quiet... jer only has him every other weekend though as the child lives in OKC on a military base with his mother and her husband. I haven't met the mother, don't plan to, don't care to. At first I didn't want to meet the child, but noticed it was REALLY bothering jer. that I wouldn't come see him or catch a baseball game or a movie, or other things when he had Taylor, so I'm slowly trying to let that go and incorporate in with all that.

My problem is-I AM a stepchild- twice over and I know that it SUX when you're trying to hang out with your dad and some girl is always around. I don't want some little kid hating me b/c I'm taking attention from his dad away from him.

well considering that why dont you talk to the little boy and maybe also explain that to jer.

A father and son does need time to themselves, but considering the lack of time the two have together I see where he is coming from. He wants the son and you to meet so there aren't any surprises.

well, I was actually discussing all this with my dad recently figuring he would take my side when he actually laid into me about avoiding the child.

I bet, so go with the flow and see what happens. The worst thing you could do is make the kid feel like you didn't want to be around him. Then you'd put jer in a tuff spot, child or gf.

I gotta say it sounds like you've matured a bit.

oh ya, alot has happened since I last spoke with you. I've had to deal with alot of stuff I wasn't ready to deal with and it's been a tough road.

I've done ALOT of growing up, probly still need work, but don't we all?

Originally posted by GirlRacer
oh ya, alot has happened since I last spoke with you. I've had to deal with alot of stuff I wasn't ready to deal with and it's been a tough road.

I've done ALOT of growing up, probly still need work, but don't we all?

Ya we do, we all grow and mature at different rates. Sometime when you're ready you should let me know what was going on when I last saw you.

I'm glad to see you've delt with things, and are working on the other things in yoru life that need to be fixed.

If I could just get my rex back on the road, life would be peachy

Originally posted by GirlRacer
If I could just get my rex back on the road, life would be peachy

Cool, I gotta say my life is peachy at my end. Just wanting a few weeks for my bonus

ah, good luck with that. This job I have now is awesome at handing credit where credit is due. They gave me $1,000 for X-mas! (around here, that's damn good money. haha)

[CD5Passion]

wow where did this thread come from?

March, 2004. haha

Originally posted by GirlRacer
ah, good luck with that. This job I have now is awesome at handing credit where credit is due. They gave me $1,000 for X-mas! (around here, that's damn good money. haha)

I'm looking for 10 times that much this year.

[mylittlecivic]

dang thats alot of pm that could have been done - oh well. Really cute dog! I had one just like that:(

Yanno, I didn't think about PMing till after. My bad. Thanks for the compliment on my dog, she's my best friend. haha

meh this was easier....