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07-10-2002, 09:10 AM

No i'm not talking about sex!

if you thought a person you knew was the right one for you, how far would you go to see if it worked? would you over come fears and tell that person how you felt?

would you drop everything to spend more time with that person?

Would moving to be closer to that person be out of the question?

What priority does finding mr/miss right play in your life?

07-10-2002, 09:40 AM

I'd have to suspect that she could be Mrs. Right before I'd go too far. I wouldn't move for a girl I've known 2 weeks and dated twice.

If I thought she could be Mrs. Right, it would be a shame to not give her the chance. I'd move to be with her if that's what it came to, I'd probably even risk the friendship, but I'd have to know she has similar feelings before I'd risk the friendship.

You'll get a lot more out of life by being with the one you love and loving the one you're with. Things tend to work out alright with jobs and such, so I'd give them a lower priority.

b

Racing Rice · 07-10-2002, 09:55 AM

Admiting how you feel is a good first step.. Then you should play it by ear and see how things are going.

07-10-2002, 10:10 AM

I'm gonna agree with RR, admitting how you feel is a great first step. Sometimes that may be the hardest thing, but once you do it, you'll feel great afterwards. If you really think that she may be the one for you, go for it. Before you do anything too drastic tho, make sure she is the one. Good luck!

*Addict* · 07-10-2002, 04:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by mt.biker
No i'm not talking about sex!

if you thought a person you knew was the right one for you, how far would you go to see if it worked? would you over come fears and tell that person how you felt?

would you drop everything to spend more time with that person?

Would moving to be closer to that person be out of the question?

What priority does finding mr/miss right play in your life?

Been there. And it worked. I didn't do jack with anyone but my girl for a while. My friends ragged on me, but I knew what I was doing.....

All that time helped me figure out that she was the right one for me. I mean hell if she can deal with me for extended periods of time.......

07-10-2002, 08:04 PM

guys hehe i'm not saying anything to anyone cause theres no one inparticular to say it too. Maybe a relationship or two i wish i could "try out", i really just wanted to get an idea of how important a relationship was you you all.

keep it coming people!

*ChrisCantSkate* · 07-10-2002, 10:53 PM

i think it depends on the person to see how far i'd go. ive never had someone i'd really go far for, once i was close to thinking i would, but i realized it wasnt her i was after. it was her friend.

07-11-2002, 12:08 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by 4thGenlude
i think it depends on the person to see how far i'd go. ive never had someone i'd really go far for, once i was close to thinking i would, but i realized it wasnt her i was after. it was her friend.

LOL HAHAHAHAHAHA

that's hillarious

DsBlu01CivEX · 07-12-2002, 06:44 PM

At this point in my life, marriage/family....hell even a serious relationship...isn't really that high on my list of things to do/get. My education, my job, and my social life are the most important things to me right now. I'm not sayin that I would deny a date or even a bf at this time, but regardless of what he is doin/wants to do...I'm gonna do my thing. If I had a serious bf right now and he told me that his job wanted to move him to South Dakota and he'd like it if I came with him....I'd have to tell him no that I can't right now. Once I graduate from college, sure I'd love to....but I gotta get what is gonna benefit me in the long run. Now I know that I could transfer schools, but who is to say that I'm going to get the same quality of education somewhere else? My school is one of the top 5 state schools in the states for my major...and I'm not about to give that up.

So basically the moral of this story is....Once I'm doin what I need to do to better my life...sure I'd probably do whatever for my man if I thought he was the one that I would grow old with and he felt the same way about me.

Whiteclipse99 · 07-12-2002, 06:52 PM

Love can make you do some crazy things sometimes! How far would I go to see if it would work out? Depends on the situation and the person. If the situation involves moving closer to that someone, then that takes a little more thought then say canceling plans with your friends to hang out with each other. Sometimes you have to take chances in life. Live and learn.

07-10-2002, 09:10 AM	#1
mt.biker Posts: n/a	how far would you go? No i'm not talking about sex! if you thought a person you knew was the right one for you, how far would you go to see if it worked? would you over come fears and tell that person how you felt? would you drop everything to spend more time with that person? Would moving to be closer to that person be out of the question? What priority does finding mr/miss right play in your life?

07-10-2002, 09:55 AM	#3
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	Admiting how you feel is a good first step.. Then you should play it by ear and see how things are going. __________________ Racing Rice

07-10-2002, 10:53 PM	#7
ChrisCantSkate Thought Police Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: orlando florida Age: 40 Posts: 9,662	i think it depends on the person to see how far i'd go. ive never had someone i'd really go far for, once i was close to thinking i would, but i realized it wasnt her i was after. it was her friend. __________________ Black Vtec Prelude-h22a power'd Many dreams come true, and some have silver linings. I live for my dreams and a pocket full of gold.

07-12-2002, 06:44 PM	#9
DsBlu01CivEX Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York Age: 43 Posts: 2,542	At this point in my life, marriage/family....hell even a serious relationship...isn't really that high on my list of things to do/get. My education, my job, and my social life are the most important things to me right now. I'm not sayin that I would deny a date or even a bf at this time, but regardless of what he is doin/wants to do...I'm gonna do my thing. If I had a serious bf right now and he told me that his job wanted to move him to South Dakota and he'd like it if I came with him....I'd have to tell him no that I can't right now. Once I graduate from college, sure I'd love to....but I gotta get what is gonna benefit me in the long run. Now I know that I could transfer schools, but who is to say that I'm going to get the same quality of education somewhere else? My school is one of the top 5 state schools in the states for my major...and I'm not about to give that up. So basically the moral of this story is....Once I'm doin what I need to do to better my life...sure I'd probably do whatever for my man if I thought he was the one that I would grow old with and he felt the same way about me. __________________ "Oh, I have a goal. And it's to have no goals at all." http://www.myspace.com/kenike

07-12-2002, 06:52 PM	#10
Whiteclipse99 4th Gear Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York, Pa Age: 44 Posts: 952	Love can make you do some crazy things sometimes! How far would I go to see if it would work out? Depends on the situation and the person. If the situation involves moving closer to that someone, then that takes a little more thought then say canceling plans with your friends to hang out with each other. Sometimes you have to take chances in life. Live and learn. __________________ Don't smoke too much, drink too much, eat too much or work too much. We're all on the road to the grave -- but there's no need to be in the passing lane. -- Robert Orben

07-10-2002, 09:40 AM	#2
spoogenet Posts: n/a	I'd have to suspect that she could be Mrs. Right before I'd go too far. I wouldn't move for a girl I've known 2 weeks and dated twice. If I thought she could be Mrs. Right, it would be a shame to not give her the chance. I'd move to be with her if that's what it came to, I'd probably even risk the friendship, but I'd have to know she has similar feelings before I'd risk the friendship. You'll get a lot more out of life by being with the one you love and loving the one you're with. Things tend to work out alright with jobs and such, so I'd give them a lower priority. b

07-10-2002, 10:10 AM	#4
LudeBitch Posts: n/a	I'm gonna agree with RR, admitting how you feel is a great first step. Sometimes that may be the hardest thing, but once you do it, you'll feel great afterwards. If you really think that she may be the one for you, go for it. Before you do anything too drastic tho, make sure she is the one. Good luck!

07-10-2002, 08:04 PM	#6
mt.biker Posts: n/a	guys hehe i'm not saying anything to anyone cause theres no one inparticular to say it too. Maybe a relationship or two i wish i could "try out", i really just wanted to get an idea of how important a relationship was you you all. keep it coming people!

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