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MissJDM · 01-11-2005, 02:53 AM

Now that I just got done reading Highlander's comment on divorce, it comes to mind...

I'd like to get everyone's opinions on living together before marriage.

Yay, or Nay?

Wren57 · 01-11-2005, 03:04 AM

An absolute YES, 100% MUST. Marriage isn't the "test" of whether or not you can spend the rest of your lives LIVING together; the living together "test" should be before marriage to end doomed relationships before wedlock.

But I'm sure you had already guessed my response.

CD5Passion · 01-11-2005, 03:12 AM

in my opinion no couple should get married unless they have lived together for more than a year at least. in fact i doubt marriages unless the couple has been together for more than 3 years. some people may be wonderful and everything but when you live with someone you learn more. a couple needs to learn eachother's daily habits. it's a test

GT40FIED · 01-11-2005, 06:06 AM

Living together is absolutely essential before marriage in my opinion. Why? Because having to face a person day in and day outis the only way to really know someone. Sure, you may think you know them beforehand, but their everyday quirks and annoyances will be something you don't know until you live with them. Maybe it's just me, but I doubt it.

IALuder · 01-11-2005, 07:28 AM

or just stay single!

Mischief · 01-11-2005, 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by SFKing
or just stay single!

preach on brotha

Racing Rice · 01-11-2005, 10:14 AM

My wife and I lived together for a couple years before we got married, and we dated for five. I feel you learn a lot about people this way. Whether its right or wrong is a personal issue that only you can answer for yourself.

I love being married, my wife is great. Sure we have our moments were we don't completely agree with each other, but I wouldn't expect us to agree 100% on anything as we are both human.

CD5Passion · 01-11-2005, 11:50 AM

and i will make sure to remind you of that, ben , when you get married

*KwikR6* · 01-11-2005, 12:04 PM

Living together taught me a lot about my ex....i like being single..

drdingo21 · 01-11-2005, 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gosei_Passion
in my opinion no couple should get married unless they have lived together for more than a year at least. in fact i doubt marriages unless the couple has been together for more than 3 years. some people may be wonderful and everything but when you live with someone you learn more. a couple needs to learn eachother's daily habits. it's a test

Hes right. Im sure hes been with more than enough guys to know that some people are simply un-bearable to live with.

Violent Apathy · 01-11-2005, 03:26 PM

01-11-2005, 02:53 AM	#1
MissJDM Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: West Coast Age: 37 Posts: 2,244	Living Together Before Marriage..:) or :( Now that I just got done reading Highlander's comment on divorce, it comes to mind... I'd like to get everyone's opinions on living together before marriage. Yay, or Nay? __________________ you say it best when you say nothing at all

01-11-2005, 03:04 AM	#2
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 39 Posts: 2,856	An absolute YES, 100% MUST. Marriage isn't the "test" of whether or not you can spend the rest of your lives LIVING together; the living together "test" should be before marriage to end doomed relationships before wedlock. But I'm sure you had already guessed my response. __________________ yeah, its that big

01-11-2005, 03:12 AM	#3
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	in my opinion no couple should get married unless they have lived together for more than a year at least. in fact i doubt marriages unless the couple has been together for more than 3 years. some people may be wonderful and everything but when you live with someone you learn more. a couple needs to learn eachother's daily habits. it's a test __________________

01-11-2005, 06:06 AM	#4
GT40FIED Best...mod...ever Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: At the end of the longest line Age: 42 Posts: 7,451	Living together is absolutely essential before marriage in my opinion. Why? Because having to face a person day in and day outis the only way to really know someone. Sure, you may think you know them beforehand, but their everyday quirks and annoyances will be something you don't know until you live with them. Maybe it's just me, but I doubt it. __________________ 1984 1/2 Mustang GT350 #842, Faster than you...nuff said Anna Fan Club President/Dictator Someday, in the event that mankind actually figures out what it is that this world actually revoles around, thousands of people are going to be shocked and perplexed that it was not them. Sometimes this includes me. "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever." - George Orwell Welcome to the new Amerika

01-11-2005, 07:28 AM	#5
IALuder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Des Moines IA Age: 38 Posts: 7,908	or just stay single! __________________ 93 Si H23vtec......soon to be 12lbs 95 Civic EX....automatic DD if you cant dazzle them with your brillance, baffle them with your bullshit.

01-11-2005, 10:14 AM	#7
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	My wife and I lived together for a couple years before we got married, and we dated for five. I feel you learn a lot about people this way. Whether its right or wrong is a personal issue that only you can answer for yourself. I love being married, my wife is great. Sure we have our moments were we don't completely agree with each other, but I wouldn't expect us to agree 100% on anything as we are both human. __________________ Racing Rice

01-11-2005, 11:50 AM	#8
CD5Passion Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Santa Barbara, California Age: 38 Posts: 5,446	and i will make sure to remind you of that, ben , when you get married __________________

01-11-2005, 12:04 PM	#9
KwikR6 Mind Blowing Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Cloud 69 Age: 44 Posts: 8,871	Living together taught me a lot about my ex....i like being single.. __________________ I JDM. I My Honda The epitome of stupidity is expressed so fluidly with the shity lyric theory you try to spit at me. I CAN'T WAIT FOR SUMMER!!!

01-11-2005, 03:26 PM	#11
Violent Apathy Registered User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Grafenwoehr, Germany Age: 39 Posts: 1,255	^ __________________ Black 2007 Mustang GT California Special "There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. Some kind of high powered mutant never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die." - Hunter S. Thompson, 1937-2005

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