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Old 01-31-2005, 08:55 AM   #1
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Enough is enough!

Okay, let's go the short story route, I met a guy online, go to meet him at this resturant/bar with my friends 'cause I'm like really shy and nervous as all hell, he shows up and is a HOTTIE, then proceeds to be VERY interested in one of my friends and later when I walk him out to his car, he's acting like he's settlling for me with me. OMFG! I was supposed to be your date, not HER! Fuock you guys, I'm sooo sick of being ignored and passed over for someone prettier! I stayed home and cried all yesterday because now I'm soo depressed. It's not all about him and it's not about her, it's about the whole situation that plays over and over again. I can't meet anyone and apparently I can't keep anyone even though they really like me sexually. I'm sooo through! Don't know how I'm going to finish work today, I just want to cry. I hate myself.....no really. I don't know what I'm going to do........................


*rant over* Thanks for listening...........
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Old 01-31-2005, 09:05 AM   #2
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there's alot of shitty guys out there
i wouldn't let it get to me, you'll find someone
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Old 01-31-2005, 02:11 PM   #3
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Re: Enough is enough!

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I can't meet anyone and apparently I can't keep anyone even though they really like me sexually.


Sounds like every relationship I've ever had.
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Old 01-31-2005, 02:50 PM   #4
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next time don't take your friends with you.
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Old 01-31-2005, 03:19 PM   #5
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You shouldnt have taken your friends with you. I never go anywhere (date-like) w/ one of my buddies. He's always got some new girl (and theyre always pretty hot). If I were to do that Id take serious risk on my own accord - exactly what you did.
I dont want to say that you should have thought about that, though.

We're men...and most of us are pigs. Why do you think there are so many men that cheat on their wives? Something "better" comes along. We cant help it...we're almost always penis-driven.
(the penis is the divining rod for T&A...it literally drags us along for the ride)

If he dropped you for her, then forget him and move on (same shit everyone else is going to say). I understand its hard to take because Ive been there (the reason I dont go on group hangout 'dates' with my buddy and a chick).

If it makes you feel better, I got shot down again today by this chick in my math class. Tally up another failed attempt. Whatever though...no big deal - hasnt gotten any worse.
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Old 01-31-2005, 03:21 PM   #6
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Sounds like every relationship I've ever had.
word.. that happens alot over the internet.. you'll met someone that is "perfect" over the internet, but when you meet them in person they are total different people
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Old 01-31-2005, 08:34 PM   #7
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Old 01-31-2005, 08:41 PM   #8
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the net ruins my life O_O
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Old 01-31-2005, 10:13 PM   #9
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Old 01-31-2005, 10:52 PM   #10
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Old 02-01-2005, 01:03 AM   #11
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That's unfortunate. However, I always felt that it's uneccessary to bring up men being jerks. Men this and men that. Dude, it's not just a gender thing [I know most of you already know this] so why does that always come up?

Anyhow, I agree with PAT in the sense of not bringing a buddy. Shit just happens and shit like that sucks..but don't let it get you down so much; that guy's probably a dumbass anyway. I don't know you personally, just always assumed you were just some sexual chick. But because I have hope in all things, I think you should too. . Someone worth your tears and frustration will come along.

On a final note, don't EVER hate yourself. I don't think that needs to be explained.
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Old 02-01-2005, 01:11 AM   #12
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Don't worry Black...at least you're out there doing something. Most of the girls I've met just aren't interested in the first place. Haha...oh...wait. It's nothing to cry over. So they guy's a fuck? Lots of guys are fucks. Just like lots of girls are fucks. Wait...I forgot how this was supposed to be supportive...
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Old 02-01-2005, 01:47 AM   #13
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At least I feel like someone may have the same thoughts on this as I do.
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Old 02-02-2005, 01:13 AM   #14
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Old 02-05-2005, 05:20 AM   #15
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You are just in the wrong area. Come on down to SoCal, we are nicer down here. I promise!
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Old 02-05-2005, 05:33 AM   #16
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You are just in the wrong area. Come on down to SoCal, we are nicer down here. I promise!


SoCal? Nicer than Sactown? Oh...sorry. During the many times I've been in SoCal and the few times I've been to Sactown, I've concluded that I'd rather die in Sactown than spend another minute in SoCal (this, of course, depends on the area of SoCal...but is moslty confined to the L.A./Long Beach area).
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Old 02-05-2005, 05:50 AM   #17
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SoCal? Nicer than Sactown? Oh...sorry. During the many times I've been in SoCal and the few times I've been to Sactown, I've concluded that I'd rather die in Sactown than spend another minute in SoCal (this, of course, depends on the area of SoCal...but is moslty confined to the L.A./Long Beach area).

I agree about that area, I am further south though. I am near San Diego. Its a nice homely place.
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Old 02-05-2005, 11:06 AM   #18
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Who is from Sactown? I am from Sactown.. lived in Fair Oaks..
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haha i thought i was the only person who's met ppl online muwhahahaha...met a few "flings" online, lol

anyways i have the same problem...go to meet girls with my buddies and they end up winning...i'm the "funny" guy in the group and girls like me because i'm "cute" an dfunny..that's IT..i'm NEVER hot or anything better than cute..i'm like a puppy that just sits there and does stupid stuff
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I'm the boring guy who looks like mike shinoda so i can attract them but not keep em.
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I'm the boring guy who looks like mike shinoda so i can attract them but not keep em.


That reminds me..did you ever upload the pic?
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do you look like mike as much as silver does?


Im the 'cute' girl that most guys wont pay much attention to at first, but if they get to know me then theyll like me.
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I'm just simply...me.
I'm sweet. I'm a bitch. I'm blunt, but I'm caring.

tahahah. Steve, am I sorta cool?
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tahahah. Steve, am I sorta cool?


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I could careless how people view me... i just care about how i feel about.. well me....If im not happy with me.. its time for me to change to make myself happy with me
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