how soon is too soon ?

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I know it's been a while since i last posted here, but since August i have been dating this new girl i met at work. She came here with an excahnge visa from romania and she was supposed to go back on october 1st, but she decided to change her status to a student visa. long story short, she got denied the visa, and she had to leave 2 weeks ago to reapply, but she got denied again. So right now my only chance of bringing her here is marriage. She seemed really different from everything that i have met before, and i really do think i love her a lot. We kinda talked about marriage this comming summer, but none of us is sure that that marriage is the right thing to do. I am affraid that if we get married and it does not work i will regret this all my life, and if i don't and we split our ways right now we might wonder what it would have been.