.:HSTuners::

Wren57 · 08-05-2003, 11:20 PM

Well, tonight I finally stopped being in denial. I go to college on the 17th. I am very excited and will absolutely make the best of it and love it, but my girlfriend is going to college the 13th. We are going to be 9 hours apart, and probably will rarely see each other again. Words can not express how deeply I love this girl. We have been through so many good times and some bad, but every day we grow closer. She is not only my girlfriend, but also my best friend- I simply can not say how much she means to me. Her presence makes me happier, even if she is in a bad mood. We have been together nearly 2 years now, and in one week we will go our seperate ways. I'm so freaking out, I don't know what to do. It finally hit, in one week I will be without her.

nonovurbizniz · 08-05-2003, 11:38 PM

You'll get over it...

Not to be harsh or anything... but when you see some nice southern bells kicking around in some dizaisy dukes... your mind will be elsewhere...

I'm not saying anything about your relationship with her but TRUST me... no matter how hard you try it's not going to evolve the way it would if you were together... there are WAY WAY too many variables envolved... it's just not a predictable or stable thing anymore...

You will both likely grow apart emotionally but remain good friends...

Are you guys planning on continuing a long distance relationship?

If so my advice would be not to.. give it a month or two but you'll see you will both likely get VERY busy and envolved in the whole new world you will both be exposed... since they are different worlds you will both evolve differently... "grow apart".

Buck up lil' camper it's not that bad...

Besides you've got a figgen Z in college and aparenty are going to be in a frat so you should be looking forward to a vagina hail storm... take advantage while you're young... AND ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS....

Wren57 · 08-05-2003, 11:42 PM

Yeah, I know, like I said it will be awesome and I can't wait, but I will miss the deep emotional connection more than the physical one, because, as you so eloquently put it, I do expect a "vagina hailstorm"

. We aren't going to try a long-distance relationship, that just wouldn't work. I would get drunk and mess with some girl, and would always be suspicous of her and that just wouldn't be cool either way.

08-05-2003, 11:48 PM

yeah man that sucks

mylittlecivic · 08-06-2003, 02:33 AM

what college are you going to? my boyfriend will be at vanderbilt in nashville he is leaving in one week

Wren57 · 08-06-2003, 08:15 AM

Im going to Alabama, in Tuscaloosa. She is going to Eckerd, which is in St. Petersburg Florida.

pimpinprelude · 08-06-2003, 01:11 PM

man that car is piiiiimp.. u shouldnt have any trouble getting a chica..

Whiteclipse99 · 08-06-2003, 02:13 PM

College life is a whole other world....with way too many temptations!

I know it's hard, I've been in your shoes, but you may be better off breaking it off before you both leave and just remaining friends. Having her as a friend is better than not having her at all.

Wren57 · 08-06-2003, 02:29 PM

We are breaking it off, certainly. I do plan on indulging myself in every way possible in college, but will miss her company, as we do almost everything together (she actually helped with my audio install, and I try to help her w/ her music)...

Racing Rice · 08-06-2003, 02:52 PM

Youll forget her name, and probably yours too, once you get into college and get situated..

08-05-2003, 11:20 PM	#1
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,856	It finally hit me Well, tonight I finally stopped being in denial. I go to college on the 17th. I am very excited and will absolutely make the best of it and love it, but my girlfriend is going to college the 13th. We are going to be 9 hours apart, and probably will rarely see each other again. Words can not express how deeply I love this girl. We have been through so many good times and some bad, but every day we grow closer. She is not only my girlfriend, but also my best friend- I simply can not say how much she means to me. Her presence makes me happier, even if she is in a bad mood. We have been together nearly 2 years now, and in one week we will go our seperate ways. I'm so freaking out, I don't know what to do. It finally hit, in one week I will be without her. __________________ yeah, its that big

08-05-2003, 11:38 PM	#2
nonovurbizniz Registered User Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: ECUSA Age: 46 Posts: 2,693	You'll get over it... Not to be harsh or anything... but when you see some nice southern bells kicking around in some dizaisy dukes... your mind will be elsewhere... I'm not saying anything about your relationship with her but TRUST me... no matter how hard you try it's not going to evolve the way it would if you were together... there are WAY WAY too many variables envolved... it's just not a predictable or stable thing anymore... You will both likely grow apart emotionally but remain good friends... Are you guys planning on continuing a long distance relationship? If so my advice would be not to.. give it a month or two but you'll see you will both likely get VERY busy and envolved in the whole new world you will both be exposed... since they are different worlds you will both evolve differently... "grow apart". Buck up lil' camper it's not that bad... Besides you've got a figgen Z in college and aparenty are going to be in a frat so you should be looking forward to a vagina hail storm... take advantage while you're young... AND ALWAYS WEAR CONDOMS.... __________________ I am an A$$hole... take anything I say to heart at YOUR OWN RISK...

08-05-2003, 11:42 PM	#3
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,856	Yeah, I know, like I said it will be awesome and I can't wait, but I will miss the deep emotional connection more than the physical one, because, as you so eloquently put it, I do expect a "vagina hailstorm" . We aren't going to try a long-distance relationship, that just wouldn't work. I would get drunk and mess with some girl, and would always be suspicous of her and that just wouldn't be cool either way. __________________ yeah, its that big

08-06-2003, 08:15 AM	#6
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,856	Im going to Alabama, in Tuscaloosa. She is going to Eckerd, which is in St. Petersburg Florida. __________________ yeah, its that big

08-06-2003, 02:13 PM	#8
Whiteclipse99 4th Gear Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York, Pa Age: 44 Posts: 952	College life is a whole other world....with way too many temptations! I know it's hard, I've been in your shoes, but you may be better off breaking it off before you both leave and just remaining friends. Having her as a friend is better than not having her at all. __________________ Don't smoke too much, drink too much, eat too much or work too much. We're all on the road to the grave -- but there's no need to be in the passing lane. -- Robert Orben

08-05-2003, 11:48 PM	#4
Shot 2 Hel Posts: n/a	yeah man that sucks

08-06-2003, 01:11 PM	#7
pimpinprelude Registered User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Atlanta Age: 36 Posts: 1,325	man that car is piiiiimp.. u shouldnt have any trouble getting a chica..

08-06-2003, 02:29 PM	#9
Wren57 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,856	We are breaking it off, certainly. I do plan on indulging myself in every way possible in college, but will miss her company, as we do almost everything together (she actually helped with my audio install, and I try to help her w/ her music)... __________________ yeah, its that big

08-06-2003, 02:52 PM	#10
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	Youll forget her name, and probably yours too, once you get into college and get situated.. __________________ Racing Rice

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