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11-28-2002, 11:19 AM

What made you give up your last relationship?

Maybe from hearing how other people's relationships went sour we can learn something about ourselves and the reflect on the realtionships we're in or had.

Cheers I'll post mine after a few posts

ebpda9 · 11-28-2002, 12:03 PM

she didn't like my car

j/k

DsBlu01CivEX · 11-28-2002, 03:11 PM

I wasn't the one that threw in the towel on my last relationship...but the reason I broke up with my first bf was because I wasn't getting what I wanted out of the relationship (it was like I was dating him AND his friends...and yah sure that's fun to hang out and all but sometimes you do need some one-on-one time) and I was also getting ready to start my first yr at college and really didn't want to be in a relationship going into college.

11-29-2002, 11:45 PM

Last relationship, I didn't throw in the towel, she did. Long distance. Things were going fine for a while but then every day she grew more distant, she wouldn't admit to it but it was obvious. Eventually I got tired of it and said maybe we should cut it and be friends, so we did and we were for a short while, then she gave up on that too.

Probably the worst case of when I threw in the towel was my first g/f. She was just so damn innocent I couldn't take it. She didn't realize that the world isn't exactly Mr. Roger's neighborhood. She was raised in a small town and was never really exposed to the world, it wasn't her fault, but I just couldn't bear it anymore. I felt like I would corrupt her innocence.

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*KwikR6* · 11-30-2002, 12:00 PM

WHy....things changed between us...priorities changed...we were heading in different directions...ideals changed....I'll admit it..I changed...but so did she...that's why. it was a mutual thing...

Whiteclipse99 · 12-01-2002, 11:42 AM

I've only had one serious relationship and it wasn't me who ended it, but I finally agreed to it. We were together our whole senior year in high school and summer after and then only lasted about a month after he went off to college. It was due to long distance and I really don't think he wanted to have a gf going into college. Too many girls to be tempted by. Luckily it wasn't a bad breakup, somewhat mutual and we're still friends.

*KwikR6* · 12-01-2002, 02:12 PM

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Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
and we're still friends.

Well that's good

Whiteclipse99 · 12-01-2002, 02:57 PM

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Originally posted by dereks civic
Well that's good

Yeah, it is. My goal, if possible, is to try to remain friends with all the guys I date, because if it didn't work out romantically, it's always nice to have another friend!

*KwikR6* · 12-01-2002, 03:57 PM

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Originally posted by Whiteclipse99
Yeah, it is. My goal, if possible, is to try to remain friends with all the guys I date, because if it didn't work out romantically, it's always nice to have another friend!

Well the thing about it is, is if you can see the person naked...then one day you don't want to see them naked anymore, why can't you see them clothed..

12-01-2002, 04:36 PM

I didn't throw in the towel in my last relationship but he ended it because he found another chick that he thought was better then me..funny thing is that he came crawling back a month later b/c it turned how she was to high maintence

his loss...but the relationship before that i broke up with him b/c he didn't like me hanging out with friends without him..he only liked me hanging out with his friends! so basically i said f**k that, but we are still friends and hang out every once in awhile

12-01-2002, 09:32 PM

Hmmm...does being cheated on mean it's my fault or hers? She cheated and I kicked her out. I'd like to think I did the right thing.

12-01-2002, 09:51 PM

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Originally posted by GT40FIED1
Hmmm...does being cheated on mean it's my fault or hers? She cheated and I kicked her out. I'd like to think I did the right thing.

yup you sure did

12-01-2002, 10:20 PM

i have stoped dating a few girls for the simple fact of them cheating on me, i dont know why but i am real good at finding the ones that like to cheat, oh and the lates addition of my ex's was katie who beacuse of a few miles between us started to date my friend... she is not with him any more, and now wants me back.... i dont understand what she is thinking..... never the less even though i have been done wrong in all of my relationships i still try to be friend with them.

12-02-2002, 01:43 PM

I broke up with my last b/f because he could never put me first. Never. I don't expect much, but he always made me feel like I came last. First it was drugs, then his dog, then friends and I was somewhere after that. I don't think he was ready to be in a serious relationship. So after a year I called it quits.

Its not like I wanted to be #1 all the time, but I always felt like everything was more important than I was, even stupid sh!t

12-02-2002, 01:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cutiepy701
I broke up with my last b/f because he could never put me first. Never. I don't expect much, but he always made me feel like I came last. First it was drugs, then his dog, then friends and I was somewhere after that. I don't think he was ready to be in a serious relationship. So after a year I called it quits.

Its not like I wanted to be #1 all the time, but I always felt like everything was more important than I was, even stupid sh!t

sounds like he was a jerk... gotta treat your girl right ya know.

12-02-2002, 01:52 PM

He was kinda....he had his good sides....needless to say Im over that and with a wonderful man now.....who might I add Always puts me first....(or at least makes me feel/think I am)

12-02-2002, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cutiepy701
He was kinda....he had his good sides....needless to say Im over that and with a wonderful man now.....who might I add Always puts me first....(or at least makes me feel/think I am)

sounds like your in a healthy relationship then. Girls do need to be put first and some guys like putting their girl first (yours truly does) and well its ashame when people abuse eachother in a relationship.

12-02-2002, 01:58 PM

Very true....I actually look back and it makes me mad....it also makes me really really mad when I see people who were in my same situation or similar. People think that they can't do any better and that what they have is the best they can get, I USE to think this way, but then once you wake up and take a look around, you realize that you deserve the best there is.

It took my 4 years wasted, 2 serious relationships, and a few dating flings....to find someone I know will make me happy for the rest of my life....but it was all worth it, good and bad, at least in my eyes.....if it meant having the outcome I have now.

12-02-2002, 02:39 PM

I broke up with my last gf beacause she cheated on me when i was away on vacation... with a total druggie who didnt even graduate highshcool. a real winner ya know. then she lied to me and all my firends saying it never happened. but one of my real friends had walked in on her and told it to me straight. anyways i havent talked to her since... she calls from time to time and i dont answer.

but i just started dating this really great girl named natalie... i was introduced to her by a friend and we just hit it off. She is great , she dosent smoke, do drugs, or drink. she is gorgeous and is a gernalism major at ASU. so im better off anyways with out my x.

11-28-2002, 12:03 PM	#2
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 43 Posts: 17,266	she didn't like my car j/k __________________

11-28-2002, 03:11 PM	#3
DsBlu01CivEX Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York Age: 43 Posts: 2,542	I wasn't the one that threw in the towel on my last relationship...but the reason I broke up with my first bf was because I wasn't getting what I wanted out of the relationship (it was like I was dating him AND his friends...and yah sure that's fun to hang out and all but sometimes you do need some one-on-one time) and I was also getting ready to start my first yr at college and really didn't want to be in a relationship going into college. __________________ "Oh, I have a goal. And it's to have no goals at all." http://www.myspace.com/kenike

11-30-2002, 12:00 PM	#5
KwikR6 Mind Blowing Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Cloud 69 Age: 44 Posts: 8,871	WHy....things changed between us...priorities changed...we were heading in different directions...ideals changed....I'll admit it..I changed...but so did she...that's why. it was a mutual thing... __________________ I JDM. I My Honda The epitome of stupidity is expressed so fluidly with the shity lyric theory you try to spit at me. I CAN'T WAIT FOR SUMMER!!!

12-01-2002, 11:42 AM	#6
Whiteclipse99 4th Gear Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York, Pa Age: 44 Posts: 952	I've only had one serious relationship and it wasn't me who ended it, but I finally agreed to it. We were together our whole senior year in high school and summer after and then only lasted about a month after he went off to college. It was due to long distance and I really don't think he wanted to have a gf going into college. Too many girls to be tempted by. Luckily it wasn't a bad breakup, somewhat mutual and we're still friends. __________________ Don't smoke too much, drink too much, eat too much or work too much. We're all on the road to the grave -- but there's no need to be in the passing lane. -- Robert Orben

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11-28-2002, 11:19 AM	#1
mt.biker Posts: n/a	Throwin in the towel What made you give up your last relationship? Maybe from hearing how other people's relationships went sour we can learn something about ourselves and the reflect on the realtionships we're in or had. Cheers I'll post mine after a few posts

11-29-2002, 11:45 PM	#4
spoogenet Posts: n/a	Last relationship, I didn't throw in the towel, she did. Long distance. Things were going fine for a while but then every day she grew more distant, she wouldn't admit to it but it was obvious. Eventually I got tired of it and said maybe we should cut it and be friends, so we did and we were for a short while, then she gave up on that too. Probably the worst case of when I threw in the towel was my first g/f. She was just so damn innocent I couldn't take it. She didn't realize that the world isn't exactly Mr. Roger's neighborhood. She was raised in a small town and was never really exposed to the world, it wasn't her fault, but I just couldn't bear it anymore. I felt like I would corrupt her innocence. b

12-01-2002, 04:36 PM	#10
Accordchick Posts: n/a	I didn't throw in the towel in my last relationship but he ended it because he found another chick that he thought was better then me..funny thing is that he came crawling back a month later b/c it turned how she was to high maintence his loss...but the relationship before that i broke up with him b/c he didn't like me hanging out with friends without him..he only liked me hanging out with his friends! so basically i said f**k that, but we are still friends and hang out every once in awhile

12-01-2002, 09:32 PM	#11
GT40FIED1 Posts: n/a	Hmmm...does being cheated on mean it's my fault or hers? She cheated and I kicked her out. I'd like to think I did the right thing.

12-01-2002, 10:20 PM	#13
SofaKingSmooth Posts: n/a	i have stoped dating a few girls for the simple fact of them cheating on me, i dont know why but i am real good at finding the ones that like to cheat, oh and the lates addition of my ex's was katie who beacuse of a few miles between us started to date my friend... she is not with him any more, and now wants me back.... i dont understand what she is thinking..... never the less even though i have been done wrong in all of my relationships i still try to be friend with them.

12-02-2002, 01:43 PM	#14
cutiepy701 Posts: n/a	I broke up with my last b/f because he could never put me first. Never. I don't expect much, but he always made me feel like I came last. First it was drugs, then his dog, then friends and I was somewhere after that. I don't think he was ready to be in a serious relationship. So after a year I called it quits. Its not like I wanted to be #1 all the time, but I always felt like everything was more important than I was, even stupid sh!t

12-02-2002, 01:52 PM	#16
cutiepy701 Posts: n/a	He was kinda....he had his good sides....needless to say Im over that and with a wonderful man now.....who might I add Always puts me first....(or at least makes me feel/think I am)

12-02-2002, 01:58 PM	#18
cutiepy701 Posts: n/a	Very true....I actually look back and it makes me mad....it also makes me really really mad when I see people who were in my same situation or similar. People think that they can't do any better and that what they have is the best they can get, I USE to think this way, but then once you wake up and take a look around, you realize that you deserve the best there is. It took my 4 years wasted, 2 serious relationships, and a few dating flings....to find someone I know will make me happy for the rest of my life....but it was all worth it, good and bad, at least in my eyes.....if it meant having the outcome I have now.

12-02-2002, 02:39 PM	#19
Civic_Time Posts: n/a	I broke up with my last gf beacause she cheated on me when i was away on vacation... with a total druggie who didnt even graduate highshcool. a real winner ya know. then she lied to me and all my firends saying it never happened. but one of my real friends had walked in on her and told it to me straight. anyways i havent talked to her since... she calls from time to time and i dont answer. but i just started dating this really great girl named natalie... i was introduced to her by a friend and we just hit it off. She is great , she dosent smoke, do drugs, or drink. she is gorgeous and is a gernalism major at ASU. so im better off anyways with out my x.