new rims/bolt pattern question....

1997 Accord EX 4cyl coupe

I'm looking at new rims online and was wondering if anyone can answer a few questions:

1. What is the bolt pattern for my make and model? I can't find the spacing in my manual.

2. How wide can I go? I've seen people in this forum suggest 7.5", I've also seen others say that is way too wide for an Accord.

3. Anyone know the pro's and con's of 17" vs. 16" rims. I know that the 17" rims look cool, but I've also heard that they are easily damaged if you hit a pot hole. I've also heard that the ride is bumpier due to the lower profile tires that need to be used. Any thoughts?

Thanx for any input....