Hi everyone, Question for Gen 5 owners...

I'm new in here, so HI! I have just purchased a 94 Accord EX 2.2 VTEC. It is completely stock for now. I am working on some extra money for 17" Tenzo-R SHU 4's with Kumho 205 40WR17's and lowering springs. I have a problem right now though, my automatic :o tranny is shifting weird (somewhere in 1st-2nd mostly) and I read about adding an additive to the tranny to fix it. My problem is I purchased the car and apparently didnt get a manual with it. I didnt notice until after I bought it, I mean who looks for that! anyway, I cant find a location for putting tranny fluid in it. and so far I found 1 dipstick which I hope is for the tranny, which means I cant find the dipstick to check the oil either. I have to purchase a manual asap for sure, but until then, could anyone explain (or paste pictures showing) where I can find these? Also, can anyone suggest a lowering kit for it. I have the problem of this being a family car, my wife and daughter dont want to ride in a super stiff bucking bronco, but I want it as low as I can. I am leaning towards Eibach pro kit, but it doesnt sound low enough. however the sportline sounds to stiff. Any suggestions for a smooth and low ride? Thanks for the imput, I like this forum alot!

PS despite sounding like a fool, I am very good with mechanical knowledge and I used to wrench on Dirt track race cars for years before this, which is why it really pisses me off that I can't find this crap. thanks for the help!

Scott