Greddy kit not 4 96+ civics

I called Greddy and talked to them why i cant put there kit on my 2k civic. they said yes the kit will fit but the FMU ( "blue or black box") is made for the 92 - 95 civic. They said they will b coming out with one this year to meet the upgrade requirements for the 96+ civics. I also asked them what i needed to run 10 psi with there kit. They said upgrading fuel and spark... then he also said i needed new rods cause they go out easy. I just want to boost enough but not so much that i have to change out the internals and have to start protecting the block.