Help with Suspension Install

1 of my girlfriends is about to install some Prokits/KYB on her 95 Accord. And there were 2 things were arent sure about
1 How much to cut bumpstops
2 How tight to torque all the nuts and should a thread locking compound be used?

Sorry for asking such a silly question. Accord Man is nowhere to be found (and isnt answering his cell) and shes going to install all of it tomorow.