Exhaust Loudness!!!

OK, here is a question for everybody. What's the quietest aftermarket exhaust out there, but one that still makes power? Are Greddy ones fairly quiet?

I am a little at odds about what to do with my exhaust. I have a OBX racing complete cat-back installed on my '99 Civic EX coupe. And, guess what, IT IS F$%^*&# LOUD!!! Well, not as loud as some of the universal mufflers crap out there, but still plenty loud. I am growing a little bit tired of the noise and vibration. I could put a supplied silencer in there, but it looks lame with this thing inside, plus I feel less power at high rpm's with the silencer installed.

So, first I thought about investing in some sound dampening and vibration dampening. But, after all is done I could just as easily (about the same amount of money) get a new quieter exhaust!!!

So, I am thinking about getting a new cat-back exhaust. What should I get? I certainly don't expect stock sound levels, but anyone who rides with me complains of the loudness, especially the girls.

Help!!!

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