2 B nice or not 2 B???

I have this problem and was wondering if any 1 else has taken this path B4.... I will meet a gurl or 2 u know kinda start dating... And I will put so much into it even if I'm dating a few gurls.. I can't help but to treat them nice - I like them to feel special and good about themselves.. I treat them with great sensuality in the bedroom-- not just a quikie then get th F*&% out. But then I have to make a descision who to stay with and who to leave-- it's hard cuz I don't like hutin anyone's feelings .... Help I think I need therapy...... Also to top it off I'm always lookin and lusting after gurls every where I go.. is this normal????