Valve Cover Gasket.

As most of you know, i am worthless when it comes to fixing things, so here goes . . .

Ok, i have to repalce my valve cover gasket - do i have to get the valve cover gasket from a 94 Del Sol Vtec or will any DOHC VTEC Bseries one fit?

How can i tell what side is the "passenger side" so i dont put the thing in backwards [again?]. Also, got any tips for screwing the Valve Cover down again (so the washers are even?).

- thanks in advance.