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[ohiochica]

ok i know this is an truly odd topic but......how far would you go with a person on a date. such as kissing on the first date ect.

I think I'd leave it at kissing on the first date (whenever that will happen), but yeah, I would like to get to know the person a little more for things to progress further...

[ShEaNy]

prolly just a goodnight kiss or something....

[ohiochica]

i agree a small kiss goodnight but how fast would you progress after that?

[Duckydos]

Umm, it all depends. I fell in love with the first girl to give me h3ad... haha, that's a different story.

It depends how long I've known the person whatnot, but a quick kiss on the lips is sufficent (assuming the date went well). Maybe the next date a 5-second open-mouth frencher. And on the 3rd date, the girl is obligated for a hand job.

Well, seeing as I have never had a relationship, I cannot really speak from experience.
I know I would WANT to wait for some while to have sex for sure (if it will even happen in the relationship)
The rest of the stuff, I cannot put a time limit because it will be based on how the relationship with that person is progressing and if I will feel like spending more time with the girl thus progressing up the bases...

[silver]

i guess it really depends upon how everything is going with the chemistry. I have been with girls where I didn't get my first kiss for a long time, and others where we did everything you could do within the first week. My personal experiences point towards taking things slow, when I have moved too fast, it would end . The problem being a guy is that it is really hard to take things slow if you have the opportunity to put it on cruise control and go all the way. I was once able to resist a girl for three days, my friends gave me mad props for holding out that long while the girls I know all said that I was just a normal horny guy...girls just don't understand.

[silver]

Originally posted by Duckydos
And on the 3rd date, the girl is obligated for a hand job.

so it is written...let it be done.

Originally posted by silver
i guess it really depends upon how everything is going with the chemistry. I have been with girls where I didn't get my first kiss for a long time, and others where we did everything you could do within the first week. My personal experiences point towards taking things slow, when I have moved too fast, it would end . The problem being a guy is that it is really hard to take things slow if you have the opportunity to put it on cruise control and go all the way. I was once able to resist a girl for three days, my friends gave me mad props for holding out that long while the girls I know all said that I was just a normal horny guy...girls just don't understand.

Bro I FULLY agree with you there. Especially the last part!!!
This is waht I just said to ohiochia...
well, what I post is what I hope and think I would have the strength and willpower to do. Now everything could change if some hot chic I that seemed like a good person gave me the go ahead....I mean...women can be so seduvise them....them...oh I can't blame them haha

[ohiochica]

what would make a girl a whore in your eyes?

sleeping with a guy on teh first date?

giving him a blow job on teh 3rd date?

feeling with clothes on on the 7th?





what would make a girl a prude?

You are asking questions that would receive different answers pending different circumstances.
Sometimes there could be something as an instant click, some connection and boom the two are off at it.
I think a slut is a girl who just goes around sleeping for the enjoyment of sex and nothing else.
If the girl had sex on the first date but then had a relationship with the guy, I personally wouldn't call her a slut.

[silver]

Originally posted by ohiochica
what would make a girl a whore in your eyes?

sleeping with a guy on teh first date?

giving him a blow job on teh 3rd date?

feeling with clothes on on the 7th?





what would make a girl a prude?

depends on the attitude in my opinion. if it seemed like she was trying to get into MY pants, then either i'm really hot or she is a slut...actually i know couples who have been together for a while who slept with each other on the first night. people have different attitudes and opinions of sexual morality. if this thread keeps up I will probably have to share one of my personal stories

Share share share share!!!!!

[ohiochica]

guys just becareful to not turn this into a porn show. i was asking honest questions.

i totally agree so far, having been one who has had sex on the first date i'd like to say one of my best relationships came of it. it really depends on the 2 people involoved and how attached emtionally you are to sex and how open or private you are. 2 open people can have sex on the first date and enjoy it where as 1 open person and 1 private person would have sex on the first date and never speak again(most likely). i just can't condemn 2 people for having sex onthe first date when i have done it and had success. different strokes for different folks.

jeremy

I think me and silver said somethign to that extent too...or at least that's how I understood it to be.

ohiochica, no one is making this a porn post. It may only appear to be one in your mind.

[ohiochica]

no i know no one is now, i just dont want someone to turn it into that.

[silver]

Originally posted by ohiochica
guys just becareful to not turn this into a porn show. i was asking honest questions.

i have decency, but here we go. So tell me if this is slutty or not.

I go to a party just before new years, end of 2001. I'm there with a friend and he says we should talk with these three girls who were about 10ft from us sitting at a table. So we sit down and start talking and I am totally digging this one girl, really hot, something like lebanese I believe. She had two other friends with her, a korean girl(hot, but not as hot as her friend) and another middle eastern girl(not hot, cold). I didn't really say much to the other two, just the hotty that I had my eye on. Well just as I'm getting ready to get all three of their numbers I need to leave to handle some dramatic business, I get back 10 minutes later and they're gone. My friends said the korean girl was liking the silvernator and had questions about me but she had to bounce. So whatever I go home and the new week starts and I get a phone call on my cell on new years eve. It's the korean girl, she tracked me down from people that I said that I knew at a fraternity at USC, took her all weekend and she went through like 12 guys until one of them had my number. So I invite her to a New Year's party that night. Needless to say she is sitting on my lap all night and I kiss her at midnight, for like 2 minutes. Then we make out in the driveway when she says to me "if I don't leave now, I don't think I will ever want to" and she goes. Well two days later I'm wasted on sunset blvd. and call her in my drunken stupor, she says she will roll by and say whats up and hang out. Well I threw up already three times by the time she got there. Then in her backseat I threw up, plus on the back of her friend in the passenger seat(the cold girl at the first party). She pulls over and I yack in a parking lot. I get back in and yack on the freeway out the window at like 90mph, meaning some of it came back. Well we went to my friends apartment and we were in his bedroom where there are two twin beds. I was in the bed with her fooling around(she was dry humping my knee) while there was major bangage going on in the bed next to us(about 8 feet away). I go home at 6am. She then calls me on friday night and said to me"so you don't have to work tomorrow right? that means you can spend the night?" so I went to her apartment and soiled her roomates sheets, and the living room carpet, and the bathtub, but never her bed's sheets now that I think about it. So it took 3 meetings over 6 days for full on romping. We continued this for about 3 weeks, then she said she didn't want to see me anymore cuz she was beginning to grow attached to me and developing feelings and a party girl like her can't have that. so...is she a slut?

see, no porn.

[silver]

the point of that story is that she wanted me, even after I threw up on her and everywhere and all that stuff, it still happened. so does that make her a whore or what...this is where opinions should differ.

[silver]

Originally posted by HndaTch627
i totally disagree so far, having been one who has had sex on the first date i'd like to say one of my best relationships came of it. it really depends on the 2 people involoved and how attached emtionally you are to sex and how open or private you are. 2 open people can have sex on the first date and enjoy it where as 1 open person and 1 private person would have sex on the first date and never speak again(most likely). i just can't condemn 2 people for having sex onthe first date when i have done it and had success. different strokes for different folks.

jeremy

and i totally agree with you. in my first post you could see me realizing this as i was typing. it depends on the people and their maturity and view of life and sex.

[Duckydos]

My first girlfriend, she gave me h3ad in the backseat of my friends car after 15 minutes of knowning her... She turned out to be a slut.
My second girlfriend, whom I am with now (Saturday was our 1 year anniversary) isn't a slut... see? Even though we had the secks on the 2nd date. Now, if we ever break up or if she cheats on me or anything (which it won't happen, I am just saying to make a point), ask me then.

Girls aren't really "sluts" unless you're the one not getting laid...

-Ducky

[silver]

Originally posted by Duckydos
My first girlfriend, she gave me h3ad in the backseat of my friends car after 15 minutes of knowning her... She turned out to be a slut.
My second girlfriend, whom I am with now (Saturday was our 1 year anniversary) isn't a slut... see? Even though we had the secks on the 2nd date. Now, if we ever break up or if she cheats on me or anything (which it won't happen, I am just saying to make a point), ask me then.

Girls aren't really "sluts" unless you're the one not getting laid...

-Ducky

I love it
yeah my opinion of my last gf of over a year is that she was a slut.

[Duckydos]

In all honesty, a "slut" doesn't really have one said attribute. It's a combination of things, including how she acts around other girls (does she flirt with a bunch of guys, hang on them, talk dirty?), what kinds of clothes she wears (if she's wearing a 2" micro-skirt and a tube top, she is probably a slut), how many guys she's been with and how many (if any) dates they went out on before secks (to include handjobs, oral, anal, or vaginal), or if she's bi.
It also depends who you ask regarding the girl. If you ask her best friend, they'll tell you that she's not. But, if you ask her ex-boyfriend, yea, she's definately a slut.

-Ducky

Hmmmmm.....that's really a tough situation, but yes, I think in that, I would say it was nothing but sex, so then maybe yes, she could be considered a slut. The last line you said, "a party girl like me can't have," I dunno. I think it screams that, but that's just me.

Originally posted by silver
and i totally agree with you. in my first post you could see me realizing this as i was typing. it depends on the people and their maturity and view of life and sex.

when i started typing ther were only 3 posts, when that submitted i was shocked and too busy to edit it, cause you and juvenile were on the same wavelength as me...i am going to go edit it.

jeremy

[silver]

I hope I get referred to as a slut one day. I would be able to die a happy man to get such respect.

Originally posted by silver
I hope I get referred to as a slut one day. I would be able to die a happy man to get such respect.

LMAO!!! omg that's priceless lol

Originally posted by silver
I hope I get referred to as a slut one day. I would be able to die a happy man to get such respect.

i strive to be a manwhore!

[ohiochica]

jeremy........u have to many morals to be a man whore

Originally posted by ohiochica
jeremy........u have to many morals to be a man whore

dammit!!! good point though

[Duckydos]

I was making a slut-flowchart, but got distracted by something shiny hehehe

Instead, I just did a GIS and found this:

[ohiochica]

wtf????????? english!

[Racing Rice]

I rarely use to kiss on the first date. I always had fun playing hard to get.

When my wife and I started going out, we had a few dates before we ever kissed. Its great having a relationship thats not based totally on sex. I feel it makes things much easier.

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by HndaTch627
i strive to be a manwhore!

heh i don't know if i'm ever gonna get labeled as a man whore but i'm labeled now as a postwhore so i'm a whore

i have had people refer to me as a manwhore before, on many occasions

[nonovurbizniz]

Originally posted by ohiochica
wtf????????? english!

didn't pick up on the fact that all roads lead to slut.

Quit worrying about it... If you like the guy do what YOU want... no more...

don't worry about people judging you from the outside. it's only his and your opinions that matter and we have NO way of telling you what's gunna make him think your slutty...

P.S. haven't you only been with 2 guys? If that includes knobjobs then you definately not a slut.

P.P.S. Being a slut (with one man) is nothing to be ashamed of... everyone wants a faithful slut by their side.

[CD5Passion]

sex isn't necesary to me, I was with my current girlfriend 2 or 3 months before and she was my first...I waited until Valentine's Day (smooth factor 9)
but we kissed and fooled around a bit but nothing beside a bit of gropage

[CD5Passion]

oh and something I observed, if a post deals with sex then it'll be the most popular haha

Originally posted by Shardsofxapril
oh and something I observed, if a post deals with sex then it'll be the most popular haha

God yeah.

And in regards to sluttiness, it doesn't have anything to do with how long it takes you IMO. If a girl is with a guy, and she's banging someone else, she's a slut