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04-21-2002, 12:44 AM

Aparently there is a relationship forum but I cant find it, and the off topic discussions summary says "anything goes"...so, after a 1 year relationship with the love of my life, it is over. I feel numb...I have nobody to turn to...this sux big !@#$.

04-21-2002, 12:45 AM

Things got very complicated in our relationship. We never saw each other and I was making constant attempts to see her...it was like she didnt care, didnt want to see me. And although she would say that she cared and that she was trying, she really wasnt. And small other things just...brought out relationship down. I never really trusted her. If you asking why, she did something with another guy behind my back. I never really forgave her for it, but I REALLY wanted to try to work things out. I just got to the point where I couldnt do anything more...I tried, I really did.

Whiteclipse99 · 04-21-2002, 02:50 PM

I'm sorry to hear your bad news. At least you can say you tried, and if it's meant to be, it will happen. The fact that she did something with another guy behind your back says to me that you guys didn't have a very trusting relationship. You should be able to trust the other person. Cheating is cheating, and who's to say she won't do it again. I know it hurts, but maybe in the long run you're saving yourself from a lot of other disappointments. It gets much easier with time, but like I mentioned before....if it's meant to be, it will happen. That's what I always try to believe! I hope things get easier!

DsBlu01CivEX · 04-21-2002, 04:40 PM

Sorry to hear about that man. It's good to know that the guy in the relationship was the one trying to make things work even though she was the one that messed up and was causing "problems". It's hard to be in a relationship where you don't have trust for the other person. Trust is a HUGE part of a relationship and if you can't trust the other person, then don't "waste your time" (i use that phrase for lack of better words). I know what it feels like to be the one in the relationship doing all the tryin. It really sucks when the other person who isn't tryin as hard as you are to make things work breaks up with you and tells you it's because he/she doesn't feel like trying anymore that they just don't wanna...but in the same breath tells you that he/she still loves you. If that doesn't confuse a person I don't know what will!!! Hang in there...things will get better and I come from the same school of philosophy as whiteclipse99...if it's meant to be...it will. Just "be a man" and start chillin with your friends again. Start bein you again doin the single thing and trust me things will definitely work out for you...maybe not with your ex...but things will work out!

04-21-2002, 08:31 PM

Thanks guys...I apreciate your comforting. It sux, but I am keeping my head up.

Racing Rice · 04-22-2002, 01:28 PM

Thats the best thing to do..

I know how it feels and it does suck, but it sounds like its for the better that you 2 didnt stay together. Youll find someone better sooner or later. Just enjoy life now, cause its to short to waste it pondering over an Ex.

2000Pimpinex · 05-14-2002, 09:10 PM

Stay positive, bro. Hang out with your friends and keep yourself busy. When the time is right, Ms. Wonderful will walk into your life.

05-17-2002, 11:59 AM

yea man, she dont' deserve a guy like you bro, there are other women out there who would love to have a guy like you, just suck it up for now man, this is part of life, keep strong and it'll get better, always does. late!

04-21-2002, 12:44 AM	#1
HondaTypeJ Posts: n/a	It's over... Aparently there is a relationship forum but I cant find it, and the off topic discussions summary says "anything goes"...so, after a 1 year relationship with the love of my life, it is over. I feel numb...I have nobody to turn to...this sux big !@#$.

04-21-2002, 02:50 PM	#3
Whiteclipse99 4th Gear Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York, Pa Age: 44 Posts: 952	I'm sorry to hear your bad news. At least you can say you tried, and if it's meant to be, it will happen. The fact that she did something with another guy behind your back says to me that you guys didn't have a very trusting relationship. You should be able to trust the other person. Cheating is cheating, and who's to say she won't do it again. I know it hurts, but maybe in the long run you're saving yourself from a lot of other disappointments. It gets much easier with time, but like I mentioned before....if it's meant to be, it will happen. That's what I always try to believe! I hope things get easier! __________________ Don't smoke too much, drink too much, eat too much or work too much. We're all on the road to the grave -- but there's no need to be in the passing lane. -- Robert Orben

04-21-2002, 04:40 PM	#4
DsBlu01CivEX Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: York Age: 43 Posts: 2,542	Sorry to hear about that man. It's good to know that the guy in the relationship was the one trying to make things work even though she was the one that messed up and was causing "problems". It's hard to be in a relationship where you don't have trust for the other person. Trust is a HUGE part of a relationship and if you can't trust the other person, then don't "waste your time" (i use that phrase for lack of better words). I know what it feels like to be the one in the relationship doing all the tryin. It really sucks when the other person who isn't tryin as hard as you are to make things work breaks up with you and tells you it's because he/she doesn't feel like trying anymore that they just don't wanna...but in the same breath tells you that he/she still loves you. If that doesn't confuse a person I don't know what will!!! Hang in there...things will get better and I come from the same school of philosophy as whiteclipse99...if it's meant to be...it will. Just "be a man" and start chillin with your friends again. Start bein you again doin the single thing and trust me things will definitely work out for you...maybe not with your ex...but things will work out! __________________ "Oh, I have a goal. And it's to have no goals at all." http://www.myspace.com/kenike

04-22-2002, 01:28 PM	#6
Racing Rice Project Combat Honda Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Highland,OH Age: 45 Posts: 7,985	Thats the best thing to do.. I know how it feels and it does suck, but it sounds like its for the better that you 2 didnt stay together. Youll find someone better sooner or later. Just enjoy life now, cause its to short to waste it pondering over an Ex. __________________ Racing Rice

05-14-2002, 09:10 PM	#7
2000Pimpinex Super Moderator Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Kentucky Age: 43 Posts: 1,427	Stay positive, bro. Hang out with your friends and keep yourself busy. When the time is right, Ms. Wonderful will walk into your life. __________________ 2008 Mustang GT 1998 Hatchback SOLD 1992 Hatchback w/ JDM H22A SOLD 1985 Ford Bronco XLT 5.8 351W w/ 33X12.5X15

04-21-2002, 12:45 AM	#2
HondaTypeJ Posts: n/a	Things got very complicated in our relationship. We never saw each other and I was making constant attempts to see her...it was like she didnt care, didnt want to see me. And although she would say that she cared and that she was trying, she really wasnt. And small other things just...brought out relationship down. I never really trusted her. If you asking why, she did something with another guy behind my back. I never really forgave her for it, but I REALLY wanted to try to work things out. I just got to the point where I couldnt do anything more...I tried, I really did.

04-21-2002, 08:31 PM	#5
HondaTypeJ Posts: n/a	Thanks guys...I apreciate your comforting. It sux, but I am keeping my head up.

05-17-2002, 11:59 AM	#8
wongfeihung Posts: n/a	yea man, she dont' deserve a guy like you bro, there are other women out there who would love to have a guy like you, just suck it up for now man, this is part of life, keep strong and it'll get better, always does. late!

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