Why Cant i met some nice girls in my area

I knew it was Erin, but I was just to lazy to go back and re-read whereever I learned it from because I don't think I've ever been introduced to anyone or viceversa....but anyways....
You gotta put your time in to find that one special girl....you can't sit home and wiat for her to come to your door...most likely it'll be a guy that will make it happen if he wants it to happen. Can't sit here and sulk cause you don't have her yet....and if you are your just wasting valuable time that you could possibly have w/ someone else....