.:HSTuners::

ebpda9 · 12-23-2002, 10:49 PM

well as you all know i had a gf for the past month or so. i met her at one of my friends party and she was the one that started it all. She asked me out, she was "crazy" about me. It all went fine till last thursday, when she decided to call it off on me. She started something like "don't get upset, but i really need to talk to you. you know things with my parents are rough, and i have a hardtime keeping up with all the things in my life, so i hope we will stay friends, you and me still share our stories, talk on the phone, go out toghether with our group of friends, but i'm can't see you anymore as a boyfriend". Usually i don't talk too much, so i'm like yeah fine if that's what you want i don't wanna cause you any problems, knowing the situation with her stepdad. Also she was talking about going back to Romania and she didn't want to get involved more than this

. i know for sure she won't go back there, but i'm just trying to understand why the hell all of a sudden ?????

12-23-2002, 11:17 PM

sometimes things happen all of a sudden... or you dont pick up on things in between the lines which makes it then seem like its all of a sudden

94_AcCoRd_EX · 12-23-2002, 11:20 PM

Damn Stefan, sorry to hear that. Who knows why people do what they do? Maybe she was dropping subtle hints along the way, or maybe she just decided one day that she needed a change.

Is it going to be totally over for sure, or would you get back with her if you could? Have you talked to her since?

ebpda9 · 12-23-2002, 11:24 PM

yeah i went out tonight with my friends and they called her and ofcourse i had to go pick her up

i dunno why i did that. it was all fine, no hard feelings or anything like that. actually i talked a lot more than if we were together

no hard feelings at all for her

94_AcCoRd_EX · 12-24-2002, 12:07 AM

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Originally posted by hondaman-iac
yeah i went out tonight with my friends and they called her and ofcourse i had to go pick her up i dunno why i did that. it was all fine, no hard feelings or anything like that. actually i talked a lot more than if we were together no hard feelings at all for her

That sounds like a pretty clean break then. If you're happy like this, the all's well, right?

12-24-2002, 01:00 AM

doesn't sound like either of you are too broken up about it

12-26-2002, 11:06 AM

See, I can't understand things like this, or any of the explanations given here. Sorry to add more worries or complications to this, but I personally wouldn't pull something like that unless I'd met someone else & I was trying to let the other person down gently.
Heh..that might just be me.

12-26-2002, 11:50 AM

I dont believe there is any easy way to let a person down. If the woman can't tell you straight up whats going on she aint worth your time. That said she might be telling you straight up, and we all just think shes being a *****. Only you can tell how she really is, but take into consideration she might value your friendship more then anything.

ebpda9 · 12-26-2002, 03:49 PM

i really don't know what to think about this. i tallked to one of her best friends about this and she told me her stepdad is a biatch. also i asked the opininon of somebody else (i was mad about her, but her dad was a biatch too) and she said that with parents like that is better to call it off, cause it will get worse and worse

12-26-2002, 06:27 PM

Um....I might be the weirdo here...but what could her parents possibly have to do with this? Unless they hated you or something. I mean...if there's a health risk involved then yea, I can see that.

12-27-2002, 11:23 AM

Dude sounds to me like you got out in good timing. If she plays the parents and distance card on you then forget about it. Distance is never an issues, things can always be worked around

. If you too really hit it off, why wouldn't you make it work? I dam well know i would, maybe she just wants friendship. As for the parents thing, thats pure BS, if her parents dont like the person she likes/loves (whatever you wanna name it) then its their problem. No good parents would be like that. I think you should just try to get over her, unless of course there was a major click there and then you should get off the net and find your way over to her part of town and start talking to her. Dont let a good one get away, but just the same dont get hug up on a bad one.

12-29-2002, 01:11 PM

Amen brutha Bika

Rob · 12-29-2002, 01:48 PM

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Originally posted by GirlRacer
Amen brutha Bika

ebpda9 · 12-30-2002, 03:26 AM

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Originally posted by AccordinStyle

you don't get your ass online too often anymore :bosted:

Rob · 12-30-2002, 05:06 PM

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Originally posted by hondaman-iac
you don't get your ass online too often anymore :bosted:

I know...I've been slacking....

01-01-2003, 11:30 PM

He's pickin back up though...

ebpda9 · 01-01-2003, 11:33 PM

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Originally posted by GirlRacer
He's pickin back up though...

rob ? he'll became a new kind of postwhore

Rob · 01-01-2003, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by GirlRacer
He's pickin back up though...

I'm trying I'm trying but the boards have been kinda dead lately :o

Quote:

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
rob ? he'll became a new kind of postwhore

so what are you trying to say??

01-01-2003, 11:42 PM

THIS BOARD'S NOT DEAD!! We just need to think up some provocative threads. I know you guys can do this.

Rob · 01-01-2003, 11:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by GirlRacer
THIS BOARD'S NOT DEAD!! We just need to think up some provocative threads. I know you guys can do this.

*bites tongue trying to be a good boy*................

01-02-2003, 12:14 AM

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Originally posted by AccordinStyle
*bites tongue trying to be a good boy*................

Aren't you a good boy already?

Or is there something we don't know about you?

Rob · 01-02-2003, 12:20 AM

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Originally posted by juvenile
Aren't you a good boy already?

ummmm....not really...

01-02-2003, 12:33 AM

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Originally posted by AccordinStyle
ummmm....not really...

Hitting on E-chics doesn't count!

Rob · 01-02-2003, 12:35 AM

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Originally posted by juvenile
Hitting on E-chics doesn't count!

oh yeah....here's an E-kiss my

DsBlu01CivEX · 01-03-2003, 06:41 PM

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Originally posted by mt.biker
Dude sounds to me like you got out in good timing. If she plays the parents and distance card on you then forget about it. Distance is never an issues, things can always be worked around . If you too really hit it off, why wouldn't you make it work? I dam well know i would, maybe she just wants friendship. As for the parents thing, thats pure BS, if her parents dont like the person she likes/loves (whatever you wanna name it) then its their problem. No good parents would be like that. I think you should just try to get over her, unless of course there was a major click there and then you should get off the net and find your way over to her part of town and start talking to her. Dont let a good one get away, but just the same dont get hug up on a bad one.

nice way of putting it rob....and not overly blunt like normal...I am impressed!!!

yah Stefan...I'm sorry again to hear about the break up...but if she's usin "BS" lines such as her parents and "life stresses" as a reason to break up then you're better off not being with her and just chillin as friends. Don't let things get weird between the 2 of you either. It is possible to remain friends with your ex. Just roll with the punches....

01-03-2003, 10:18 PM

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Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
nice way of putting it rob....and not overly blunt like normal...I am impressed!!!

yah Stefan...I'm sorry again to hear about the break up...but if she's usin "BS" lines such as her parents and "life stresses" as a reason to break up then you're better off not being with her and just chillin as friends. Don't let things get weird between the 2 of you either. It is possible to remain friends with your ex. Just roll with the punches....

wya to eco me

ebpda9 · 01-03-2003, 10:41 PM

i just realized that the month we were "toghether" was fun but being single rocks.

mylittlecivic · 01-10-2003, 03:04 AM

im sorry:(

ebpda9 · 01-10-2003, 07:09 AM

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Originally posted by mylittlecivic
yeah then you can 'e - hit on' girls like rob does

not my style

12-23-2002, 10:49 PM	#1
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 43 Posts: 17,266	somebody help me understand this well as you all know i had a gf for the past month or so. i met her at one of my friends party and she was the one that started it all. She asked me out, she was "crazy" about me. It all went fine till last thursday, when she decided to call it off on me. She started something like "don't get upset, but i really need to talk to you. you know things with my parents are rough, and i have a hardtime keeping up with all the things in my life, so i hope we will stay friends, you and me still share our stories, talk on the phone, go out toghether with our group of friends, but i'm can't see you anymore as a boyfriend". Usually i don't talk too much, so i'm like yeah fine if that's what you want i don't wanna cause you any problems, knowing the situation with her stepdad. Also she was talking about going back to Romania and she didn't want to get involved more than this . i know for sure she won't go back there, but i'm just trying to understand why the hell all of a sudden ????? __________________

12-23-2002, 11:20 PM	#3
94_AcCoRd_EX Insomniac Moderator Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: OR Age: 43 Posts: 11,142	Damn Stefan, sorry to hear that. Who knows why people do what they do? Maybe she was dropping subtle hints along the way, or maybe she just decided one day that she needed a change. Is it going to be totally over for sure, or would you get back with her if you could? Have you talked to her since? __________________ 1994 Accord EX coupe --Need hosting for your pics on HST? PM me...--

12-23-2002, 11:24 PM	#4
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 43 Posts: 17,266	yeah i went out tonight with my friends and they called her and ofcourse i had to go pick her up i dunno why i did that. it was all fine, no hard feelings or anything like that. actually i talked a lot more than if we were together no hard feelings at all for her __________________

12-26-2002, 11:06 AM	#7
GirlRacer Posts: n/a	hmmmm See, I can't understand things like this, or any of the explanations given here. Sorry to add more worries or complications to this, but I personally wouldn't pull something like that unless I'd met someone else & I was trying to let the other person down gently. Heh..that might just be me.

12-26-2002, 03:49 PM	#9
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 43 Posts: 17,266	i really don't know what to think about this. i tallked to one of her best friends about this and she told me her stepdad is a biatch. also i asked the opininon of somebody else (i was mad about her, but her dad was a biatch too) and she said that with parents like that is better to call it off, cause it will get worse and worse __________________

12-23-2002, 11:17 PM	#2
firstgeardude Posts: n/a	sometimes things happen all of a sudden... or you dont pick up on things in between the lines which makes it then seem like its all of a sudden

12-24-2002, 01:00 AM	#6
Wabster Posts: n/a	doesn't sound like either of you are too broken up about it

12-26-2002, 11:50 AM	#8
mt.biker Posts: n/a	I dont believe there is any easy way to let a person down. If the woman can't tell you straight up whats going on she aint worth your time. That said she might be telling you straight up, and we all just think shes being a *****. Only you can tell how she really is, but take into consideration she might value your friendship more then anything.

12-26-2002, 06:27 PM	#10
GirlRacer Posts: n/a	Um....I might be the weirdo here...but what could her parents possibly have to do with this? Unless they hated you or something. I mean...if there's a health risk involved then yea, I can see that.

12-27-2002, 11:23 AM	#11
mt.biker Posts: n/a	Dude sounds to me like you got out in good timing. If she plays the parents and distance card on you then forget about it. Distance is never an issues, things can always be worked around . If you too really hit it off, why wouldn't you make it work? I dam well know i would, maybe she just wants friendship. As for the parents thing, thats pure BS, if her parents dont like the person she likes/loves (whatever you wanna name it) then its their problem. No good parents would be like that. I think you should just try to get over her, unless of course there was a major click there and then you should get off the net and find your way over to her part of town and start talking to her. Dont let a good one get away, but just the same dont get hug up on a bad one.

12-29-2002, 01:11 PM	#12
GirlRacer Posts: n/a	Amen brutha Bika

01-01-2003, 11:30 PM	#16
GirlRacer Posts: n/a	He's pickin back up though...

01-01-2003, 11:42 PM	#19
GirlRacer Posts: n/a	THIS BOARD'S NOT DEAD!! We just need to think up some provocative threads. I know you guys can do this.

01-03-2003, 10:41 PM	#27
ebpda9 Repost Wagon Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: over here Age: 43 Posts: 17,266	i just realized that the month we were "toghether" was fun but being single rocks. __________________

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