Negativity

Allright,I'm a pretty negative guy I could find the bad points in a free million dollar check.I constantly ***** at work and tend to weed out the other misserable people to ***** with.I haven't dated in probably 8yrs.I dont really do anything except play in my band and work and get wasted on fridays.On the occasion that I do go out to see another band I usually find myself allone and wanting to be home.Also when I see a girl I like I actually hope she don't talk to me cause I have absolutly nothing to say and I hate having to smile and hold a conversation.I very rarly do anthing involving other people cause I don't like it plain and simple.Am I the only one like this?????

nah dude i think we all have it in us to be like this, some people just let it rule who they are.

I see stuff like that in me but not even close to the way you have it. I too can point out the flaws in my friends, family and gf at teh time. And you know what iv'e been there and done that; friends stop being your friends, family tells you to show some more respect and you end up dating a girl who thinks its healthy.

What you have has taken over who you are, it can be a healthy tool to be able to look at something adn see all the problems... it can make you a shit load of money *hint hint* but if when you look at anything and all you see are the flaws thats wrong.

For example, one of my friends never shows how he's feeling nor comes up with ideas for what to do on a friday night. its like hes just sorta there. now i could let this bother me or i could just accept him as one of my good friends. I've chosen to keep him as a friend.

Or when it comes to girls, if you think your gonna find yourself a porno star type girl (god knows why you would want one, but for this convo lets say you do)with the blonde hair big boobs and tight ass. Well i'm sorry but you might find that but chances are your gonna pass up alot of GREAT girls who dont fit the MO in search of a girl that when you do find you still wont be happy with. Am i making any sense?

I think you need to change your view on life, its ment to be enjoyed and learned from. You choose to view life negatively, make no mistake about it... its a choice. Make the "right" choice and keep your chin up!

[ebpda9]

i'm kind of in the same boat as you.

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
i'm kind of in the same boat as you.

as who?

[ebpda9]

as civic.

i shower more often thou. i'll do it often but the water in cleveland is very high concentrated on clorine and sometimes my skin can't take it. it gets all iritated and stuff. for the past few years everything resumed to my cars and my computer.

civic let me ask you something: did u have problems with your mom or your dad in your childhood ? i'm just asking because i had a lot of problems with my dad, and i'm in a constant fight with him. i was trying to see if that could be the cause for my negativity in life. at one time i used to say " Life's a biatch so fu*k it" or " you got only one life and i gotta fu*k this one too"

Sounds to me like maybe there is some depression underneath all this. I was like this at a time, where it just didn't matter if I even had friends. All I wanted to do was sit home, and if I actually went out with a friend, I found that I would get really crabby and sad, because I wanted to go home.

Its normal to be like this sometimes, but like mt. biker said....you have let it take over you. You should really talk to someone or try to find something deep inside to overcome this. Its negitive and its not healthy, especially if you've been like this for 8 yrs.

Think of all the fun and opportunities you could be missing while your at home. Maybe it seems scary, or for whatever reason, but I guarantee that once you start going out again, and change your train of thought, you will be much happier.

Im just speaking from my own personal experience