I'd personally rather go down on a chick then a guy, so I think BlackW has it worse. Guys don't shower often enough, the'r balls smell, etc... Woman have way less issues, hairy / smelly, much easier to deal with.
As for you two... settle down, you're at eachothers necks daily. You have a difference of opinion, no need to take it beyond that. Give it a moment and try to see where the other person is coming from. BlackW, remember he's Canadian... so....