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Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
Yay someone for me to relate too!! hehe
Love takes time to build up. I don't think that you can just look at someone and see how they act and say "Yep I'm gonna love that guy/girl for the rest of my life." Sure stranger things have happened...but I highly doubt that phenomenon is going to happen to me. You need more than physical appeal to make a relationship work and sure I might love a way a certain guy looks...but who's to say I'm going to be able to fully trust him, have a good convo with him, be able to relate to him etc etc. Too many people rush into things and end up miserable. Ya know...there is NOTHING wrong with being single.
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wwwwwwwwwwhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaatttttttttt? being single myself i can say this-
being single sucks!
I must admit i'm much happier now then i was with my last gf but in the right relationship i would be much happier then i am now, all alone.
Sure you dont have the restrictions that an unhealthy relationship brings but a good relationship (i'm guesing here never had one) shouldn't hold you back like most do. I think most people dont find themselves in a healthy relationship because they end up dating someone for the wrong reasons whatever that might be; a need they want filled.
Guys get pegged with wanting a relationship for sex (not always true) and the girls they find to fill that need bring their own wants to the relationship, often to be controlled, or to control. Often a girl who ends up sleeping with a guy without knowing him just wants to be loved. For some reason in her past she hasn't been, i know of one girl (havent seen her in 2years) who told me she just liked to be help afterwards. I was shock, she slept with a guy just for the holding afterwards. Twisted huh?
well thats what happens when people dont have a good upbring, not to say you can't have a good relationship if you have a rocky childhood just its made harder because you have to figure out whats right and wrong in a guy/girl relationship.
wow my 200 cents there