I know where both of you are coming from. I've been here before and it sucks, but the last time I wasn't married.
Just think about it this way. I'd really like to be 100% positive that something is indeed going on, before I do anything that I can or will regret later. I am being cautious, and I'm not going to just forget that all of this has happened. I've always been the kind of person to get one the benefit of the doubt. Sure it has come back to bite me in the ass, but I've also been wrong before as well. Sooner or later the truth will uncover itself, and when it does I'll be ready for it.
It's easy to sit and say I would do this or I would do that until you're actually faced with the situation, because a lot of times reality isn't as clear cut as it is when you play the situation in your head. It is better to have tried and failed, then to have never tried at all.
I'll try to keep you guys updated if anything new happens. Now, I wait strategically.
