biker's back

It might have only been talk but have you ever wondered why say guys want hotter and hotter girls. Or girls want guys that are fitter? People seem to be working towards this image that they will never be able to reach. Girls starve themselves to be skinny because they hear some guy likes girls who dont have alot of meat on them. Guys hit the gym at younger and younger ages to have muscles that they hear women want in their perfect man.

There is no harm in 'just talk' but sadly enough its never just talk and some impressionable mind is listening/reading this crap. It all plays up to society's image of the 'perfect' mate. When in reality what does it all matter knowing what someone else likes?

I wont bother asking what people think about their 'perfect mate' because its really irelevent (SP?) to living. As for the woman bashing, no I was only displaying one side of the coin, heres the other. (note not alot of guys sit around talking about the perfect girl, anywho)

Guys talk and play up how important looks on in women. Will pick up a girl because she looks good and then lead her on a relationship adventure as he plays games so that he might get in her pants. Alot of guys are less then truthful in their true feelings towards the girl they are with and often throw the love word around just in order to get some more a$$.

All this talk or compairing someones gf to a girl you're thinking of dating always leaves a perfecting good datable girl looking lacking. Compair her to the latest model/porn star you've grown up jacking off to and she'll never match up. All this talk about boobs and ass does little in finding the woman who is everything you actually need in a solid relationship, but clouds mens minds with the simple persuit of sex.

If you take a look at some of your guy friends who have always been single alot of them compair and find girls they have never talked to gone out with lacking on the simple messure she isnt fit enough to be seen with them. All this talk and media hype starts alot of men down the path of physical relationships and causal sex. it does little for the good women who are very attractive and supper nice. However it does serve good measure to confuse both parties.

when a guy says he cant find any decent girls and has never really dated anyone for any length of time it is probably more to do with him then he's willing to let on. Maybe its a bad relationship with his mother, the wrong desires to start a relationship, poor communication with women in the past bc his views of them have been altered by the porno stars that do all these dirty things without even say more then a few senstances.

I could go on. Neither sex is perfect and we all have our strengths and weaknesses. Theres nothing as touching as when i see a single mother get on the buss with her son or daughter after school between her two jobs shes working for him/her. Women have a lot of love to give and are truly amazing in that way. When I originally said what I said I was keeping on topic and if you think in some way I look down on women it wouldn't be further from the truth.