People change, it's a part of life and sometimes people grow apart. I do understand where you guys and girls are coming from on the issue of jobs, but if you truely love that person, you love them for everything that they are and everything that they're not regardless of what kind of job they have. As long as it makes them happy. I think distance has a lot to do with break ups. It makes it really hard on a relationship when you can't see that person very often. No matter how close or far away they are. It takes the right kind of people together to make it work. I give props to those couples who can do it!